I'm uncomfortable with this “request” and I'm not even part of the conversation. OP is handling this like the most patient person in this plain of existence/
She can have friends, just not people that flirt with her. The fact that she ignores your concerns about him and refuses to establish boundaries should show you how little she cares about you. I don't think this is even a fight worth fighting. You have told her more than enough times how you feel about him, so she knows it. If she goes, you should break up with her, without any negotiations (keep in mind, do not tell her that beforehand).
She doesn't love you. You can't force yourself to love someone. You're never going to be happy with her. Why would you want to stay with someone who doesn't love you?
I know it's hard, but you need to end it. Get yourself into therapy to help you through this and so you're not tempted to get back together with her.
She isn't a good person because she knows she doesn't love you and never will, yet she stayed with you and took you back. That's wrong.
Hes a walking red flag OP. Run.
“It’s not you, it’s me. You’re great. Bye now!”
ahem
Yes.
I'm uncomfortable with this “request” and I'm not even part of the conversation. OP is handling this like the most patient person in this plain of existence/
She can have friends, just not people that flirt with her. The fact that she ignores your concerns about him and refuses to establish boundaries should show you how little she cares about you. I don't think this is even a fight worth fighting. You have told her more than enough times how you feel about him, so she knows it. If she goes, you should break up with her, without any negotiations (keep in mind, do not tell her that beforehand).
yeh, i think you’re right. I’m so scared to have this talk with him, but i know i need to do it. I don’t want us to be over 🙁
She doesn't love you. You can't force yourself to love someone. You're never going to be happy with her. Why would you want to stay with someone who doesn't love you?
I know it's hard, but you need to end it. Get yourself into therapy to help you through this and so you're not tempted to get back together with her.
She isn't a good person because she knows she doesn't love you and never will, yet she stayed with you and took you back. That's wrong.
DEFINITELY will get worse.