Lawrence O'DONNELL has a great quote about What Have Liberals Given Us? Look that up and it's a long list of rights that he enjoys, like overtime, 5 day work week, paid vacations, women's right to vote, etc. Ask if he enjoys those rights. But this doesn't seem like a guy who will listen to reason. He's just doing it to pester you or get even for some perceived wrong. Or dumping on you for frustrations at work. That's called transference.
You can’t have something “forgiven and forgotten” if she doesn’t get the chance to make her own choice to forgive you. It would be SO SHITTY to proceed with a relationship without disclosing this, especially now that you’ve apparently told everyone around you. Now everyone in your life has this secret about your relationship that you’re all collectively keeping from her. That’s really disgusting behavior. She has the right to know this and make her own decision about whether she still consents to a relationship with you. Maybe she won’t care, or maybe she will, but either way she should get to make an informed decision.
Keeping it simple, you did good. Don’t worry about your parents and what they say.
Lawrence O'DONNELL has a great quote about What Have Liberals Given Us? Look that up and it's a long list of rights that he enjoys, like overtime, 5 day work week, paid vacations, women's right to vote, etc. Ask if he enjoys those rights. But this doesn't seem like a guy who will listen to reason. He's just doing it to pester you or get even for some perceived wrong. Or dumping on you for frustrations at work. That's called transference.
You can’t have something “forgiven and forgotten” if she doesn’t get the chance to make her own choice to forgive you. It would be SO SHITTY to proceed with a relationship without disclosing this, especially now that you’ve apparently told everyone around you. Now everyone in your life has this secret about your relationship that you’re all collectively keeping from her. That’s really disgusting behavior. She has the right to know this and make her own decision about whether she still consents to a relationship with you. Maybe she won’t care, or maybe she will, but either way she should get to make an informed decision.