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hello guys i’m Camila, ♥ pvt show is open [GOAL MET]
Date: October 24, 2022
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Yeah I'd say best bet is to move on but I do think that she thought we were a good fit based on some of the things she said, she's just kinda recently out of a couple of relationship/situationship so I feel she's a bit scared and hesitant to get back into something
I sent her a message acknowledging my ignorance, and apologising for my actions. She said she understood it was an accident and borne out of ignorance and lack of education rather than malice, that usually she would find it very affirming but given what happened after, that ruined it for her. Understandably. She says she forgives me for damage caused to her, but not that of my sister. Which is very understandable and more than reasonable.
That's awesome to hear! I think the therapy will help you to kinda sort through all these thoughts and emotions. One recommendation with therapy, go in with goals for yourself. And don't be afraid to look for a different therapist if the first one doesn't mesh right… It can take a bit of work sometimes to find a good one.
Honestly, he sounds like a good dude. Does he know exactly what you are dissatisfied with? Is there something you could have communicated or done sooner to have avoided feeling this way now?
I think the best route forward is to dig deep, examine your feelings, and communicate with him your appreciation for his support, talk up his good qualities for you, but that you are unsure this will work out and that therapy is going to help you process what you are going through and you can't guarantee that y'all will be together afterwards.
It's a difficult talk, but a respectful one. It lets him know where you are at, why you want to fight for the relationship, but allows him the opportunity to walk if this is not the parth he wants to take with you.
Your focus is going to have to be on yourself for awhile, and that can be very hot for a partner to go through.
Hopefully this has helped a little!
Your locking onto a strange part of this. I find what he said to her in that old conversation way worse than how he's handled this situation.
Sorry English is not my first language.
We talked about it when I gave her my fantasies. She said she would allow me to try my fantasies with an other woman. But that just hurt me. My fantasies involve her. The one I love and trust.
And we could pay for counselling if we want to.