Have you heard the phrase, 'if they wanted to, they would'?
There are several red flags here, kids are just a little bit of it. I think you will find your life is better without him, and likely his life will be worse. Don't let him talk himself back into your life without actual proof of what value he brings.
Okay, so she could start working on fixing her libido issues, and communicating with OP to let him know what help she needs doing that.
Or do you think OP is the only one who needs to communicate because he's a man?
Have you heard the phrase, 'if they wanted to, they would'?
There are several red flags here, kids are just a little bit of it. I think you will find your life is better without him, and likely his life will be worse. Don't let him talk himself back into your life without actual proof of what value he brings.