You will always come second to his brother if you marry this guy. You, your kids, your family will never be his priority. Why would you want to put your kids through something like that?
As a therapist, I'm really surprised this therapist allowed you to book with him/her. This is kind of a conflict of interest. It'd be much preferred for you to see someone else.
Tbh I was recently groped and assaulted by a poly couple, so I’m polyist for the time being. Also, and keep in mind what I just said, I have had 3-4 friends attempt the poly lifestyle, and that shit without fail, ALWAYS ended in disaster.
Kinda weird how we're in a forum about relationships & boundaries. Yet the consensus is that its profoundly not okay for a guy to not want to guzzle his own cum.
Let him leave.
Get court ordered paternity test
Collect alimony and child support
Find new man who will raise the kids with you.
Laugh at his new sad pathetic life where he gives you half his money and you get to be with someone better.
You will always come second to his brother if you marry this guy. You, your kids, your family will never be his priority. Why would you want to put your kids through something like that?
As a therapist, I'm really surprised this therapist allowed you to book with him/her. This is kind of a conflict of interest. It'd be much preferred for you to see someone else.
Tbh I was recently groped and assaulted by a poly couple, so I’m polyist for the time being. Also, and keep in mind what I just said, I have had 3-4 friends attempt the poly lifestyle, and that shit without fail, ALWAYS ended in disaster.
Kinda weird how we're in a forum about relationships & boundaries. Yet the consensus is that its profoundly not okay for a guy to not want to guzzle his own cum.