I usually roll my eyes when people make a big deal out of things on this sub, but I would actually be furious about this if I were you. Like, I would like send an angry message, pack up my shit and go to a hotel for a couple days. I would be questioning whether or not this person even cares about me. The disrespect here is insane. You don’t have to take this. You’re still young as hell. Why are you married to someone who spends your anniversary/ Valentine’s Day with her male “bff” after having you make a bath for her and help her make sandwiches for her coworkers? Fuck that shit. You should be angry right now, not just sad.
Straight up, sexual assault then coercion when that didn't work, then abuse because he didn't get his way, like an immature, brat.
Pretty sure the only reason he “apologized” was so be could still get laid when y'all get back.
All this in a foreign country? He thought to use you long a sex worker, buy your body, & use you for his own personal kinks/ fetishes.
I see no reason to stay with this man; these aren't the sort of issues you overcome as a couple; he needs serious help, without you.
I usually roll my eyes when people make a big deal out of things on this sub, but I would actually be furious about this if I were you. Like, I would like send an angry message, pack up my shit and go to a hotel for a couple days. I would be questioning whether or not this person even cares about me. The disrespect here is insane. You don’t have to take this. You’re still young as hell. Why are you married to someone who spends your anniversary/ Valentine’s Day with her male “bff” after having you make a bath for her and help her make sandwiches for her coworkers? Fuck that shit. You should be angry right now, not just sad.