You seriously don't deserve this man. He is too good for you. I hope therapy makes him realize what you really are and gives him the courage to divorce you.
“Outbursts” imply this has happened more than once. It's happened at least 2 times, probably way more. And he's still with you. He's not even thinking about divorce.
Grovel at this man's feet and do whatever he says if you really want to keep him. He's already giving you the second chance you don't deserve.
Oh and pro tip: treat your husband the way you want to be treated. If something would hurt you, don't do it to him. The fact that I have to tell you to use empathy within your own marriage speaks volumes about you as a person.
It's straight up misogyny. The patriarchy in action. A belief women should be “pure”, which is essentially about ownership. Or that you're somehow dirty because you've slept with other people. What a bunch of horse shit. Amazingly, the same rules don't seem to apply to men. The fact he's shaming you, but simultaneously saying he should be able to sleep with other people is messed up and manipulative. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Get away from this man. He will never respect you as his equal.
You seriously don't deserve this man. He is too good for you. I hope therapy makes him realize what you really are and gives him the courage to divorce you.
“Outbursts” imply this has happened more than once. It's happened at least 2 times, probably way more. And he's still with you. He's not even thinking about divorce.
Grovel at this man's feet and do whatever he says if you really want to keep him. He's already giving you the second chance you don't deserve.
Oh and pro tip: treat your husband the way you want to be treated. If something would hurt you, don't do it to him. The fact that I have to tell you to use empathy within your own marriage speaks volumes about you as a person.
I can see that everything I’ve said has gone right over your head lol.
You don’t need the guilt trip. That’s not a friend.
It’s okay girly! That’s what this sub is here for! Good luck.
What do you mean by that?
It's straight up misogyny. The patriarchy in action. A belief women should be “pure”, which is essentially about ownership. Or that you're somehow dirty because you've slept with other people. What a bunch of horse shit. Amazingly, the same rules don't seem to apply to men. The fact he's shaming you, but simultaneously saying he should be able to sleep with other people is messed up and manipulative. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Get away from this man. He will never respect you as his equal.