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1. They cheated once, they will cheat again.

   Have you ever done some actual research on cheating. Why it happens, what causes repeatsx differences between men and women cheating etc? And I don't mean reading a couple of blog posts.

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2. There are two different things going on here —

   First: issues in your relationship with Bob. You feel invisible and unsatisfied.

   Second: the spark with Jim.

   The aligned timing of these two problems is making it seem like the solution to first issue might be indulging the second.

   Here’s the thing: both these problems are temporary.

   The lack of spark with Bob might seem like huge and fundamental, but the truth is that all long-term relationships cycle through periods of varying passion and intensity. It takes continual effort from both parties to maintain excitement. You need to talk to him, tell him that you want more sex and attention and romance, work on investing that into the relationship yourself by creating adventures and fun and sexiness, and you might be surprised by how much fire you can reignite.

   Meanwhile, those new-romance fireworks with Jim? They never last. Eventually, those sparks either stabilize into the steady, warm fire that keeps a long love going (like what you have with Bob), or they burn out completely. Initial chemistry doesn’t always (or even usually) mean you’ll have actual compatibility.

   You won’t improve your relationship with Bob if you cheat — you will continue to feel invisible and unsatisfied, and your emotional connection to him will worsen, because you’re investing energy and effort outside the relationship instead of in healing those problems. You could in fact destroy your relationship with Bob entirely — even if he stays with you after he finds out, how would he ever trust you again?

   In essence, it’s like you’re living in a house that’s great, but a little too cold for you. You could try to fix it up, tinker with the heating system, improve the insulation, install a fireplace, but instead you’re standing there with a can of gasoline and a lit match, contemplating burning it down to feel the heat.

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