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I assume you don’t want to cut them off (for some reason) so maybe try bluntly redirecting the conversation.
“I wasn’t talking about [x]. Do you want to hear what I have to say or not?”
Or
“I’m finding your interruptions rude and out of place. I’m trying to talk about [x] not [x]”
Or
“I’m not interested in having this conversation. I want to talk about [x]”
not sure if it’s better to be mean on purpose or by accident. Mean is mean.
Totally effed on her part making that known. I don't know you or how you think, but nothing would make up for that in my book. You gotta do you though I get that.
Just tell him you won't be able to attend because you can't afford it and you don't want to have to pay him back. If he keeps insisting just keep saying no.
If his Instagram habits bother you, maybe find an agreement where you both delete your accounts. Sounds a little one sided. Uncomfortability may stem from insecure projections. Address the fact that you're threatened by other woman. The rest shall fall into place.
If his Instagram habits bother you, maybe find an agreement where you both delete your accounts. Sounds a little one sided. Uncomfortability may stem from insecure projections. Address the fact that you're threatened by other woman. The rest shall fall into place.
You should be calling the police when he does this and breaking up with him, not spending your time worried about his safety. If you stay with him, do you really think he won’t do this with your (future) kids in the car? He’s a repeat, routine drunk driver who dgaf about anyone.
Shut upppp
Agreed.
Why are people like this?
I've called him a sociopath recently.
The relationship is honestly over at this point.
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My fiancé is a little more conservative than I am, but, he respects my point of view too. He and I agree on many things, like abortion being legal, addressing people by the pronouns they choose, LGBTQIA’s rights, things like that. He is more conservative in terms of believing in state’s rights, and gun rights, but he is in agreement of stricter gun laws, and strongly believes that our country’s mental healthcare is in strong need of reformation. I don’t agree totally with gun rights, but he knows this, and respects me on this. We are allowed to differ. Your bf does not respect your boundaries, and that’s a huge issue. There is nothing wrong with breaking up over this, it makes you incompatible, and again, nothing wrong with that at all. You do you girl, and on-line a happy life. Even if the next person you date doesn’t completely side with your political views, as long as you respect each other, that’s a healthy relationship.
My fiancé is a little more conservative than I am, but, he respects my point of view too. He and I agree on many things, like abortion being legal, addressing people by the pronouns they choose, LGBTQIA’s rights, things like that. He is more conservative in terms of believing in state’s rights, and gun rights, but he is in agreement of stricter gun laws, and strongly believes that our country’s mental healthcare is in strong need of reformation. I don’t agree totally with gun rights, but he knows this, and respects me on this. We are allowed to differ. Your bf does not respect your boundaries, and that’s a huge issue. There is nothing wrong with breaking up over this, it makes you incompatible, and again, nothing wrong with that at all. You do you girl, and on-line a happy life. Even if the next person you date doesn’t completely side with your political views, as long as you respect each other, that’s a healthy relationship.
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Obviously he copy/pasted his original AITA-style post here. So, he should have changed the title, ok fair enough. But he is actually asking for relationship advice, so it fits her IMHO.
? You’re legitimately more willing to step in and push for a test to see about hypothyroidism than to talk to her about an alleged alcohol issue? Bro, you give a shit about her dropping pounds quick and easy so she looks thin for you. Cut the bullshit. The more I read the shittier you sound. Come. On.
I guess we really disagree on the fundamentals then, it seems like we're unlikely to come to any reasonable agreement.
Not much point continuing the conversation in that case. Have a nice day.
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He isn't likely to change. You can tell him it hurts your feelings. It won't matter. The best you can probably do is work on not taking any of his words to heart. Seek counseling. Get to a point where you understand that he has a problem, and his behavior has nothing to do with you.
My dad's an alcoholic, 15yrs+ sober, I was close to him when he got sober and went to a few of his AA meetings. It's really impacted how I consume intoxicants, even years later. My main thing is – what's my motivation for consuming? A single beer because you enjoy the flavor and bubbles is vastly different from a single beer (or a “single” beer that's actually 3) you drink to get drunk. I try to take stock of the situation before I grab a bottle opener or a doob or whatever.
Sometimes I “check in” before having a drink and realize, yeah, I had a rough day and I want a tasty beverage that will make it easier to laugh about. I'll acknowledge that, make a mental note, have the beverage, and if I find myself in that situation again in the same week or so, I'll find something other than alcohol that will make me feel better. I also won't have more than one drink under negative circumstances. Sometimes I'll take a bath or watch a comforting TV show instead. Those are just my ways of setting boundaries. Intention and the ability to tell yourself “no” make for healthier relationships with anything potentially addictive – shopping, food, video games, whatever. Honestly, to me, your habit doesn't sound concerning on its own, but setting your own boundaries & intentions might help you feel in control of things, and your partner might feel more at ease (so you can keep having your occasional after-work brewskis). Just my experiential two cents!
I hope she does, and then he sits alone wearing a Pikachu face.
Stop trying to fix it. You fucked up, and your apologies are not reassuring. What you really need to do is figure out WHY you did it, so you can make damn sure it never happens again, because of this was only your first real argument you will definitely do it again if left unchecked. Talk to a therapist to identify what triggered you and steps you can take to handle those feelings appropriately in the future. Your girlfriend may not come back, and I wouldn’t blame her. You need to do this regardless for your own sake and the sake of those around you.
Say you're codependant without saying you're codependant. You're a jerk, break up with your girlfriend she deserves better than that.
Invested in the relationship or invested in her own sexual experience? She was interested in having sex with someone else (in a threesome), respectfully, that's enough for me to doubt her love. Both of yours tbf
I’m in denial and there’s been other smaller examples in the past of this behavior. Either way, what do you guys think? Is this just a heated argument or is this concerning?
You're in denial if you don't think this is behaviour that straight-up necessitates either immediate apology and therapy, or stopping seeing this guy.
Physical behaviour like this is inexcusable unless there's some fundamentally essential background to explain it. It goes without saying you can't go around breaking people's stuff like that – it's property damage if nothing else.
You're both meant to be adults, you don't need “punishment”, there's no reason he can't vent frustrations verbally and talk things out and not go round hitting things.
What happens when it's not the TV he hits next time? Will you be accepting his “punishment” and agree it's clearly your “own fault”?
Someone who can't control their anger and justifies their actions has no place in your life – don't excuse it, accept the behaviour and draw a line in the sand on if you're prepared to stomach this and he'll end this behaviour and victim blaming or it's gone too far.
Dude, you are just enabling her!
Stop it NOW!
If you can't, get therapy for you immediately.
The outcome will be the same: This relationship is doomed!
Let her go. She needs therapy to move on from her issues. Nothing you do is going to make it better. She needs to work on herself and her trust issues before she dates anyone.
The age gap is a bigger red flag.
Soooooooooooooo……… ?
I do, but maybe he doesn’t?
You have I think 72 hrs but anytime I’ve had to purchase it for a girl they were not trying to wait so it was generally the next day.
I’ve done the long distance thing while In school and there’s absolutely no way we wouldn’t have sex during a visit unless something was up. Sorry bro but I think you already know what happened.
Lol redditors love to lie
Text him back and say “Can I tell you something? I'm single as f—“.
Dont get me wrong, I don't distance myself from the friends I already have. My friends are great to have fun with, but I found meaningful, serious conversations to be easier shared and analyzed with someone I am in a relationship with (after getting to know them for period of time and determining that they're able to hold such conversation) or with my brother (we've been through alot together and from him, i get unbiased, logical perspectives). I'm very much introverted, and I've always kept personal conflicts and turmoils to myself: I analyze my feelings, and try to work through what I can logically.
I trust myself wholeheartedly to stay loyal to my partner. My moral values will not allow me to even think otherwise. My moral values also find it to be, again, a general respect to keep boundaries with people that may be of interest. Hence why I keep a certain distance and omit from having certain conversations with, again, people that can be of possible interest. I still keep in regular contact with my long-term friends. The length and topic of conversation that my boyfriend has with her is my concern. I hope this clarifies any misunderstanding.
It’s really naked to believe that you can write all this out and not see that your life is utter crap and you might actually be killed by this imbecile. Get out already, you don’t need a therapist to tell you that you’re living a shitty, dangerous life, and you don’t need us to tell you, either. Good grief
I dont know why that font is so big. Sorry.
I'm not sure how to approach it?
Yep, she should be telling the friend not to fuck her ex.
SLIDESHOW of DICK PICS thinking you're gonna get turned on by that
This might shock you, but some women do enjoy looking at good dick pictures. I'm not talking about flabby cocks reflected in a bedroom mirror, but images where you've made an effort with location, lighting, and framing.
I've had people ask me for more, multiple times. Your partner should find you nice to look at, touch, and think of. I don't care for random pictures of tits, but if my partner sent me hers? That'd be nice. It'd be her.
(Now I wish I could link to that old site where dickpictures were rated, but I can't find it.)
Is it a male friend or female friend OP?
Either way talk about it with her when she is ready that is all you can do.
Lol, not in polyamory!
Who needs enemies, when you can have OP as a mother..
Completely different, some outsole grow and change in that time. Some people realise what they actually want, especially if they start young. Most people don't know what they want or are looking for at 21
Why do you keep including your ex? He doesn't matter anymore. What matters is your actual relationship. No wonder your bf doesn't trust you.
Yes you should leave. He still has feelings for his ex, and you will always wonder if he loves you. He probably will too.
He’s a scammer, a catfisher or married
This is going to need a professional. But first thing, you two need to go on dates. Go to a nice dinner, get drunk, have sex, go to breakfast the next day.
If you can’t have fun, the relationship has probably run its course. She already has the support she needs through her new friend group and she’s already living life like she’s single(not saying she’s cheating).
Um, all the legal benefits granted to married couples? Tax breaks? Automatically allowed into hospital rooms for ill family members? Automatic inheritance in lack of a will? Ability to share benefits? The list goes on and on, it's not just a piece of paper. Maybe those aren't romantic reasons, but they can make your life a hell lot easier.
Also, your kid will have your last name, they'll just have a second name appended to it. I don't really follow the logic here–you seem to think that including your wife's name diminishes your familial connection to your child? The whole point of hyphenation is to emphasize the child's connections to mother and father. I can understand your surprise, but you seem to feel threatened by the concept. Why?
Having said all that, your girlfriend isn't in the clear here, either. This is hella manipulative. She agreed that the kid(s) would get your name, but then reversed course after you got her pregnant. It is possible that she changed her mind once the hypothetical children became physically real–sometimes. But her next action makes me suspicious. She threatened to cut you off from your kid if you didn't agree?? What the fuck. What the flying fuck. And then you stay in the relationship because of this threat. Holy shit. She used your kid as a hostage to keep you with her. That's extremely fucked up, and Does Not Bode Well for the future.
I guess what I'm saying is, don't marry this woman. Not because of the hyphenation thing (which is a reasonable request), but because of the using your child as leverage thing.
You're dating a rapist. It's generally not a good strategy for happiness in life. You may want to reconsider
If you put effort into therapy and managing your mental health, you’ll learn tools to be more stable and less anxious as far as attachment style.
It takes work. You can do it. I’d refrain from dating until you’ve been pretty solid for at least a year.
She probably interpreted your comments as ones that invalidate her identity as a person from non-white cultures, which she is. She’s at the very least white passing if not just white race-wise. However, she has part of her identity rooted in non-white cultures – Latin, Muslim, Slavic, Bosnian… they likely play a part in the formation of her identity.
If you trust her. Then trust her. That's it.
Honey I guarantee your family would rather lose a bit of money and have you happy and free, then spend money and make you feel stuck in an abusive situation. Look up “sunk cost fallacy ” and don't commit just because you think you've gone too far already
Thank you for letting me seeing it from that side of things, I see how it could come off that way even though it is not like that, I wish I never told him
He’s not wrong
Colorado for one. Age of consent is 17 but 15/16 can have consensual sexual relationship with up to 10 years older (so 25/26)
Close in age exceptions of 4 years or more are not uncommon. The Federal age of consent is 16 but with a 4 year close in age exception for 12+
I feel embarassed
I think you worry way too much about what other people think of you. Stop trying to people please, and instead demand that others meet YOUR criteria.