His viewpoints are absolutely a valid reason to break up with someone. Any kind of incompatibility is a valid reason. I couldn't imagine staying with someone who doesn't view anyone different as human. It's only going to get worse from here.
If you are into it and she is willing you could have an open relationship. Otherwise, this will continue to make you more and more unhappy and you should probably move on.
It's not impossible trust me. You go on FB marketplace and that's how it is. They charged us extra as well for having 3 people. It would've been 1300 a month if not for my son. Idk how to explain it, I don't think you'd understand unless you lived here. The landlords are horrible here. Where my ex lives it's even more expensive, beyond expensive. We used to live in a townhouse together (the one he is currently living in). Regarding a job, it would take so much explaining, but I had to be a stay at home mom when we were together. He had a rotating schedule because he was a paramedic and would work 24 hour shifts. When we broke up I got a job and that was miraculously flexible. They eventually let everyone go from that job. Basically cleared house. I got another job that wasn't as flexible and I constantly had to miss days or my ex had to miss days we were both in danger of losing our jobs. It didn't work. Then my mental health got to me and I had to quit. About a year ago I attempted suicide and got sent to a mental ward for a while. I promised myself that I'd do whatever it takes to stay alive for my child because that's all that matters. So as of right now I'm trying my best to work on my mental health. Getting a job and figuring it out on my own isn't off the table, it's just right now I feel so unstable I can't.
Babies aren’t viable until at least 24 weeks (6 months), and even then there’s only a 50% survival rate.
His viewpoints are absolutely a valid reason to break up with someone. Any kind of incompatibility is a valid reason. I couldn't imagine staying with someone who doesn't view anyone different as human. It's only going to get worse from here.
If you are into it and she is willing you could have an open relationship. Otherwise, this will continue to make you more and more unhappy and you should probably move on.
You’re being really intense about this dawg
It's not impossible trust me. You go on FB marketplace and that's how it is. They charged us extra as well for having 3 people. It would've been 1300 a month if not for my son. Idk how to explain it, I don't think you'd understand unless you lived here. The landlords are horrible here. Where my ex lives it's even more expensive, beyond expensive. We used to live in a townhouse together (the one he is currently living in). Regarding a job, it would take so much explaining, but I had to be a stay at home mom when we were together. He had a rotating schedule because he was a paramedic and would work 24 hour shifts. When we broke up I got a job and that was miraculously flexible. They eventually let everyone go from that job. Basically cleared house. I got another job that wasn't as flexible and I constantly had to miss days or my ex had to miss days we were both in danger of losing our jobs. It didn't work. Then my mental health got to me and I had to quit. About a year ago I attempted suicide and got sent to a mental ward for a while. I promised myself that I'd do whatever it takes to stay alive for my child because that's all that matters. So as of right now I'm trying my best to work on my mental health. Getting a job and figuring it out on my own isn't off the table, it's just right now I feel so unstable I can't.
Recognize the trauma bond… and LEAVE ANYWAY.
Get off it. He didn’t hold a gun to your head to make you talk.