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I hope you can get back in touch, or kept in touch with that person who was outcast. I'm certain they'd really appreciate hearing from you, and you're in (or soon going to be in) the same boat. You can begin developing a new friend group together.
And that new group doesn't have to be a homogenous bubble, either. It's not about finding people you agree with exactly… it's about finding people you can *disagree* with. I've got both, and it's great – people I see really eye-to-eye with, but also people I have significant differences but who are able to look past them and see the worth in someone with a different perspective on life.
I really wish more people could read Jonathan Haidt's “The Righteous Mind”. I have to admit, I was quite prejudiced against conservatives and right wingers before reading that, and coming to understand the differences in values and prioritisations that underlie those differences. Also Eric Hoffer's “The True Believer”, incredibly insightful.
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I hope you can get back in touch, or kept in touch with that person who was outcast. I'm certain they'd really appreciate hearing from you, and you're in (or soon going to be in) the same boat. You can begin developing a new friend group together.
And that new group doesn't have to be a homogenous bubble, either. It's not about finding people you agree with exactly… it's about finding people you can *disagree* with. I've got both, and it's great – people I see really eye-to-eye with, but also people I have significant differences but who are able to look past them and see the worth in someone with a different perspective on life.
I really wish more people could read Jonathan Haidt's “The Righteous Mind”. I have to admit, I was quite prejudiced against conservatives and right wingers before reading that, and coming to understand the differences in values and prioritisations that underlie those differences. Also Eric Hoffer's “The True Believer”, incredibly insightful.
Relationships are a two way street, you seem rather focused on what you want, but appear not to be giving equal attention to what your partner wants