So your friends ex hitting on you and he decided to ghost you? Is never good idea to go in between a relationship you might have to choose who to stay friend with especially depending on their break up situation
When I was a kid I had problems controlling my emotions, and it was really very hot for me to stop in the moment (I lashed out)
If you can’t pause and think before lashing out yet, at least call yourself out honestly every time afterward. Think about why, what, etc you felt the way you did
Break it down as logically as possible, and then next time you’re angry, try to think about it and ask whether you’re reacting similarly this time
It sometimes takes a while but eventually you can change yourself for the better if you really want to, and you really consistently try to
Sounds like your anger/ “attitude with everyone”/short temper is pretty unattractive and she’s seeing the red flags and actually responding correctly. I don’t think she’s interested anymore
So your friends ex hitting on you and he decided to ghost you? Is never good idea to go in between a relationship you might have to choose who to stay friend with especially depending on their break up situation
Depends on what happened in the marriage and why she left.
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When I was a kid I had problems controlling my emotions, and it was really very hot for me to stop in the moment (I lashed out)
If you can’t pause and think before lashing out yet, at least call yourself out honestly every time afterward. Think about why, what, etc you felt the way you did
Break it down as logically as possible, and then next time you’re angry, try to think about it and ask whether you’re reacting similarly this time
It sometimes takes a while but eventually you can change yourself for the better if you really want to, and you really consistently try to
what he is doing makes me utterly upset.
There’s a difference between something being upsetting to you and being wrong.
Sometimes in life, stuff is upsetting. And then you keep living.
Sounds like your anger/ “attitude with everyone”/short temper is pretty unattractive and she’s seeing the red flags and actually responding correctly. I don’t think she’s interested anymore