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so why did you marry her?
You definitely need better than this and i hope you can move out soon. I know love, you dont have to explain yourself. And he should know better, especially with what you’ve said. You are rightfully upset by his insensitive actions.
At this point it’s like ya you could’ve communicated better but he should’ve known better too.
Id definitely look for a guy with a lot of emotional maturity after this. Dont move in with the guy until you know he is the caring type and has a love language with “words of affirmation.”
It's disgusting that you are sticking up for a person who abused an animal. THAT IS ANIMAL ABUSE. HE IS NOT A LOVING MAN. DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN WITH HIM. Wtf is wrong with you? That poor kitten.
You are delusional to how the world works, but I do agree that situations like this make it harder for real victims of rape to be heard.
She was working too much 5am-11pm everyday and we had no time to be together. I did ask if there was someone else at one point and she told me no she wouldn’t do that to me
The entire post is full of people who are openly admitting to hitting their children and saying it’s ok. I feel like I’m going crazy. What is going on?! Why are so many people ok with children being hit?
Perhaps. Or I don’t give a shit. Who knows
Second one is the best. First will be a little dramatic and can backfire.
Absolutely remind her you are in a marriage. That wasn't some nice party you had a few years ago. It formed an obligation for you both. You owe each other more.
You make it sound like your partner isn't actively working on themselves with a psychologist or other professional. Is that right? If yes, I would approach the situation from a place of worry. Me tuin that you are very worried about their mental health and want them to feel better. And that they need to see a professional. Also offer your help in setting things up and making sure they go to appointments, if that is possible for you.
If they are already seeing a professional and it is not helping, or you just feel unappreciated by their actions and are frustrated, I would consider two things. 1) are you still happy in this relationship? And 2) is your partner able to work with the feedback during her therapy sessions? You could even try couples therapy. That way, your partner can get help with your relationship dynamics. You are their partner, not their psychologists. You don't need to constantly listen to depressive thoughts.
But if you are unhappy and see no end in sight, please remember: don't keep others warm by setting yourself on fire.
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To be fair, he’s been trying really hot to make it happen since we first started having sex. And maybe ‘inconsolable’ isn’t the right word. He isn’t throwing a tantrum or anything, it just seems to be something that he keeps thinking about and is actively trying to work through but doesn’t know how, since he doesn’t know why he feels this way. On one hand, I want to try to help him get over it but on the other, I’m offended that he feels ‘hurt’ about it to begin with.
You’ve given us practically nothing to work it. Go see a doctor, you can lose fertility any time for so many reasons. That is the only advice, don’t jump to conclusions because you will just make an ass of yourself.
He’s actually quite patient too but I get that he’s also getting tired of fighting with me
The posts do kind of cover the exact same situation, the other one is just lengthier; the advice you received on this thread still apply to both.
You are delusional in these comments. There is no magic way to be ok with it dude. That's something no one can tell you how to feel and in that same vain you can't just magically wave a wand and make her change her mind either. Either break up or don't. Don't come here asking for advise and then not take it
Ew that gave me the ick, too. He may seem great, but luckily this stand out red flag gave you an idea of what weird views he has as early on as it was. I hope you continue to go out and date and find someone perfect for you!
Tell your wife, ask her to get her dad there so you can tell him what you discovered.
What do you mean, won't last long term? This is long term. They are married with children. Meaning, she has given birth to whole ass babies. Of course her body has changed.
This advice that you're giving here is useless in context of what she actually wrote. This man married a woman not expecting her body to change at all while having a family.
They have done the bare minimum yes.
The other stuff I'm honestly not entirely sure about. He's always just maintained that they've always had his back and they have helped us with a lot. They helped us move to Tennessee. They helped us when my boyfriend got a kitchen set and we needed help hauling it. They've taken him on lots of vacations so he's seen a lot of the world that most don't. I can't speak on his whole life because I wasn't there. So I don't know what they did or didn't do. I know my boyfriend adamantly swears they've been good to him and gave him a good life and always had his back. So I will give credit where it's due they are not always in this form.
But, BUT. This form still exists and that's very problematic. And through our whole relationship every promise they have made to him regarding making an effort with me or apologizing for something, they did not do. As far as I'm concerned that means everything involving me was a lie. They aren't the type to “breathe life” into exciting news or really be excited about much. You'll get a lukewarm “very cool” or “that's neat” at best and the conversation usually ends there from what I have seen.
And his mom had him when she was 15 and his dad (technically his step-dad but he always just calls him dad) was 13 when he decided to step up and be a dad to him when he was 3. And neither of them have ever been in therapy so I'm imagining there is a lot of baggage there just from becoming parents so young not even factoring any of life's other hardships. And for my boyfriend that's a huge deal and he's constantly put them on this pedestal for having him so young and giving him such a good life. His biological dad was kind pretty hit or miss with being around so it's hot to say if his step-dad dad was actually as wonderful as he thinks or was just physically around. Since I've been around, I've known him to have a temper and be a massive control freak who thrives on drinking, being the center or attention and making crude jokes. His mom will shower you in presents and then be really nasty or underhanded in a sneaky way where you can't prove it. Literally like a high school mean girl. But idk. For my boyfriend, that's not the stuff he sees when he looks at them.
Thank you
Does he have any eating disorder? I'm specifically thinking about ARFID, as those with ARFID tend to eat only very, very few dishes and often, fast-food is among them.
If he doesn't have ARFID or a similiar disorder, then he's just an ass. Though, I mean, even with ARFID, he sounds horrible as he could just communicate that he only wants to eat specific things.
I would indeed suggest not cooking for him anymore. It sounds like he is capable of doing so, knows “what he likes” and thus can absolutely take care of himself. If he bites the hand that feeds him, stop feeding him.
she basically asked for it indirectly.
hmm, this I dont personally agree with. I think there needs to be a serious talk about what BOTH of you expect from each other. The more we assume, the more we can make up scenarios in our head and act upon them.
However, I can empathize with how you are feeling. I know it sucks coming from the side of potentially watching something end. I really wish the best for you and that you guys figure out together whether or not this relationship is worth working on or just cutting loose to spare anymore pain
This’d be the last nail in the coffin for me. You just needed a soft place to land. If he can’t gently hold your heart while you’re grieving the loss of a friend what can he do!?
I’m worried about his mental stability. The obsession is terrifying. I’d be very worried about you “having an accident”. Please be very careful. I’d do as much as you can to get all your ducks in a row, before telling him you’ve filed for a divorce. I’d even go so far as to ask for a police presence when you give him the information and ask him to pack a bag and leave.
You know what you did was wrong. Guilt is dripping off of every word you wrote in this post, especially the bits trying to minimize what happened and focus on her insobriety and behavior.
You were drunk too.
You got physical too.
You are just as much at fault for this as she is.
You guys both need help for your alcohol use, and you need to break up because you’re both too toxic to be together.
I was open about wanting and needing her support. I had no idea she was planning to leave when she did, so I didn’t have an opportunity to ask her to stay.
God what a crybaby
Thank you! I've never heard of the depo shot so ill take a look into it, I have talked to my doctor and there was the options if the bar, hormonal iud and birth control with 1 hormone.
I want to try the new birth control with 1 hormone, and hes also not scared of getting pregnant we would like a family later down the line but he said if it happens he's willing to support any decisions I choose.
Yeah. Thanks for pointing this out actually. I get overwhelmed, so smart replies go out the window, and I just shut down.
Raise your voice, throw a glass plate on the floor’ then rush in Face-2-face and get mean’ like you want to kill that Mother Fucker’ and tell his ass he ain’t 1/2 as fucking smart as he thinks is dumb ass is’
You are becoming his mom. That’s not a great vibe. What he was in the past vs what he is now. Sounds different.
With that take, likely doesn't have a wife either ?
Definitely the graph paper. Help her measure the room, rounding to the nearest half-foot. Then, using each square as a half-foot for reference plot out the room (include windows and doorways). She can plot out arrangements as much as she likes, and you can review potential changes together before making a change.
Youre right to feel frustrated. Busywork is annoying as hell. It your wife's credit, so is looking at a space and knowing its disorganized.
This is where you lost the plot.
Almost plausible before this comment.
I mean you are separated so now you deal with it. What's the problem here? Even if you asked him he's under no obligation to tell you anything. Don't 'separate' if you can't handle being apart? Pretty clear case of wanting to eat your cake and have it too.
Idk man it's one thing if OP's husband is spending his Saturdays sitting on the couch, but saying you should give up half of a free weekend day is a big ask to barely interact while one person does their hobby that you can't even watch. Even though you're not anchored to the finish line for hours doesn't mean you're getting to spend your time how you want – you're just killing time until the race is over.
Yeah I basically told her that already before she left. If nothing more comes from this when I see her again should I just end it with her?
He works with other women?!? he must be cheating
Ohhhh I see what you did there ???
Yeah I used to feel guilty about invading his privacy but Idc anymore if I’m being honest and idk how I feel about him right now but I don’t want to be quick in naming him a “bad guy”
My mum was 39 and my dad 49 when they had me (tail end charlie of the 4 children they had).
It is a horrible realisation that they will probably die when you’re younger. My dad died when I was 25 and my mum when I was 35.
Make the most of them while they’re here and in good health. Learn all you can about them but don’t forget to live your life too. Take photos and videos. Make sure you’re in the pictures too. Get to know them not just as their child but also get to know them as an adult. Ask them about their childhood and family. Record them talking about their life.
You miss their voice when they’re gone.
Commiserations on your failed relationship. Hopefully the next one will be better. You may think I am being harsh here but it is only a matter of time before your love for him is overtaken by your sexual frustrations at his inability to pleasure you and your resentment in the knowledge that he can do something about it but doesn't value your pleasure enough to do anything about it.
It’s about give and take. If she cares anything for you, she’ll understand and will want to work through this with you.
If you keep it bottled, you’ll end up resenting her which won’t end well.
Please tell her for your own mental welfare.
They are not kissing in front of me, the only time I ever saw them was in front of that club. Apparently, they did make out a couple of times more but I only found out recently. They tried to make me think they were just friends and nothing had happened and would treat me like I was crazy whenever I brought it up.
I spoke to them and said I don't want to hang out the 3 of us anymore. It was very sad but I agree I think its best for me. I spoke to my brother and it got really heated, I think I had been bottling up a lot of stuff for a while toward him. Its not the first time he does it, like hook up with someone we normally hang out the 3 of us together, even though he knew I was getting upset.
I am living my own life now, although it is still a bit weird with my best friend because we live together and do a lot of stuff together daily. But we will be ok.
Thank u for your reply!!
Okayy I will surely do stop being friends with him.
Congrats. You showed her how much physical power you have over her and how you had the opportunity to hurt her and chose not to stop when she was already hurt. Good job. Boyfriend of the year award. Hope this vindication was worth your relationship, AH.
I just spit my tea out laughing, and it's totally worth the 5 minute clean up!
Just bring it up to his attention!
This just unlocked a memory of mine as a kid under 12: I was playing with my Barbie and Ken dolls, and they were having some sort of spat. Somehow, age came up in dialogue, and I spent a while trying to do the math. I think my Barbie was like, 19 and Ken was 40 something.
By the time I figured out the age difference, I had actually grossed myself out and realized it would never work out. I still think about this and wish I had kept this in mind when I went through my own dating woes because I was right even then, lol.
OP, please listen to us: people, (gonna include either gender), only date people much younger than themselves for control and power. You'll see this when you're their age.
Hey man. It's okay to change. Your wife should want you to be happy if she really cared about you. You've turned into her slave. Time to hit reset. Trucking sounds like a great way to get out of your situation. You've been trying for years. You've done your part. How many more years do you really want to do this? You're going to die some day.
I think this is a bad idea. So say her sister answers? Say she answers from her husbands phone? Then what? It doesn’t prove anything. Sure it makes it look more suspicious but nothing concrete.
OP already showed up to her house unannounced. Some people may use that as an excuse to start blocking or ignoring OP.
Psychologists don’t prescribe medication; you’re thinking of a psychiatrist.
He told her after awhile. Wouldnt say where.
This is key information. You’re shit talking your wife to another woman. That’s fucked up man.
When I’m reading some thing about reconciliation, or talking to one of my friends, it’s gone through it one of the things they say is that eventually they have to make a conscious decision to forgive them. And once they forgive them, they kind of turned it back on things like that. So it doesn’t mean the feelings don’t come up, but they don’t run with it. They just ignore them and keep moving forward. Eventually they become less and less than eventually they don’t come at all. If you want to stay with her, you might try just for giving her and then when the feelings come up, go do the dishes take a walk go to the gym do something different. See if it works.
Random question, but do you think trying a lotion with glycolic acid could potentially also help? After cleaning of course
You are correct, it will escalate, and I know pille are quick to use gaslighting as a term but she is literally gaslighting you and hoping you live in fear so she can act however she wants. Document every single time she exhibits this behavior and take yourself and the child out of the environment. That is the ONLY way to make her “see that it isn’t ok” and if she doesn’t change then, you will have your answer. Good luck OP
I am sorry to tell you this, but if he has that much insecurities, then you dodge a bullet. Whatever you did before meeting is not his business.There is a better man out there . It will take time for you to heal but you will.
Move on with your life and let this be a lesson to never get involved with a married man again.
however this time I am unwilling to lend her money
Have you been paid back?
As an FYI you can just ignore her additional requests.
That said if your bf is paying rent, they really can't ask him to leave. That said them wanting him out doesn't paint bf in the best light
My Dad has a black friend at work and a queer disabled daughter. Love him, but he's still a bigot that thinks LGBTQ people existing in public is “shoving it in his face”. “I have a black friend” is like the racist mating call.
Is this dude treating you poorly in general, or is he some kind of bigot? Because he’s going out of his way here to be super toxic to you for no reason and it makes me wonder if this isn’t about your orientation or your illness. TELL YOUR FRIEND EVERYTHING! Do not let this man fly under the radar and let everyone know, the only reason to stay silent is to allow him to keep doing this shit, not just to you but to others as well. You don’t have to go back to the group if you feel unsafe, but telling people and saying why you’re going could help you keep the good people from that group in your life.
I can see why.
Glad it's all resolved, though. And I say this one woman to another, you've been on two dates. Two. If you want to keep him in your life then maybe chill, yeah?
Spot on. I'm 44 and cannot imagine having any romantic interest in anyone under 35., let alone someone in their 20s. You're living in different worlds with an age gap like that.
(1) so she lies or better to say hide that she is with you when her so-called best friend calls and ask where's she is? are you sure you ain't the side dude??
(2) does the dude know you or knows your seeing each others ?
(3) sound to me he is a little too controlling if she has to hide she is with a dude…like he ain't her dad…
Sound sus to me
These kinds of situations are telling for the future of a relationship. These issues crop up and if you two can't agree on objective truth there's going to be way more problems in the future.
Renting would be smarter and a very tight prenuptial agreement even better.
You need to block him everywhere and get him completely out of your life. It is the only possible way for you to move forward. Do it now, the longer you wait the harder it will be. Trust me, I've been there – this is the only way.