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Date: October 27, 2022
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You didn't answer the question I asked.
He sounds like he has what he wants and doesn't have to do anything now, never rush to move in with a bf or gf.
Watch Patrick Teahan YouTube videos on toxic family systems and being the Scapegoat of the family.
Write in a journal to manage your stress. Talk to a supportive grandparent or school counselor about how you feel stresses because your mom treats you like a scapegoat and calls you crazy. Talk with a school counselor or church youth pastor if it might help.
Listen to calming music, try a meditation app, deep breathing app, drawing art, feeding the ducks at the park, chatting to a friend, playing solitaire, etc.
Keep a list on your phone of strategies you can try when you are stressed.
As for your mom, she is quite immature. Try to ignore her rude behavior. She just wants to press your buttons and get a reaction out of you, don't give it to her. Keep a poker face. Put your ear buds in and play the poker face song.
You knew this man had children when you met him, as you dated, and as you moved in together and had your own child together. Did it never occur to you until this moment that his children would at some point be in the space HE lived in?
You can raise your concerns about the ex and all that, and you two have to decide together what protections work and how to navigate this. But it isn't YOUR house anymore, it is your shared home. The idea that you still call it “my house” is very troubling.
Support is fine. My partner and I happily support each other in this way.
Omg watch 90 day fiancé. If you sponsor her to get a green card you’re on the hook for her expenses for 10 years! Dont join the army because you’ll have a difficult time being sent various places and you won’t get to see your kid since your wife won’t want to follow you. Let her move in with her parents. Get yourself situated and speak with an attorney!
Will he be living in the home full time?
You should have told him, but he also shouldn’t have jumped the gun
I mean if he threatens to kill himself, tell him to do it ??♀️ He’s too old to play emo games like that. Get your money out of the shared account. You’re not married so he would have to take you to court to get it back anyways and that costs money. File restraining order. Notify your friends and family what has happened and that you feel like he’s a danger to you.
I thought he had an epiphany and quit?
OK so lemme get this straight…. you and her were boinking at 17(you) and 18 (her), but 16 is too young? It's already a super shitty FALSE accusation to be throwing around, but like…. her math also don't b mathing there unless she's also willing to call herself that…
There's another issue she's got going on. I'd go nuclear and tell her family exactly what went down and what she said before breaking it off.
Totally off topic but they have a new sensor safe system or something which works to prevent leaving kids in cars, maybe if you both get it she’ll feel better.
Most certainly change all the locks
A cheater is going to cheat. You should’ve left him the last time.
Is his wife also flirty?
Your feelings are valid!
My SO and I have an consenting agreement. She can “initiate” sex with me when I’m sleeping anytime she wants. I’m comfortable with that and like it. She is uncomfortable with me doing the same while she’s sleeping. It’s her boundary. So I don’t cross that line.
I think y’all need to have an honest conversation and let him know you’re not ok with what he did. His reaction will tell you what you need to know.
Just wait until you're married. Work on yourself, find the right person, stay in a committed relationship with them without sex until you're ready to settle down. After you get married you will be with a person who loves and respects you and wants to spend the rest of their life with you. Sex will be MUCH different than what you're describing now.
selling body care… does that mean youre in a MultiLevelMarketing scheme? Honestly, youre not the first teen/young mom ive seen promoting MLM products (Arbonne, Young Living, Younique) and trying to be a Mom-fleuncer and you probably wont be the last.
Second, you never answered the other people who asked if your “work” has a retirement plan, health insurance, etc… Even Mcdonalds gives you insurance (no hate on mcdonalds).
I'd realllllly think twice if I was you about wanting another kid. You are still a kid. Living on your own at 16 means nothing as you still got pregnant at an unconventional age and are working on social media in terms of maturity.
If my boyfriend said, “yes” I'd laugh my ass off. There are probably tens of thousands of women who are more beautiful than I am! 100s of thousands! And that's okay! Am I the girl he wants to be with and IS with is what matters. Henry Cavill is goddamn gorgeous to look at, but I'm not in love with him.
We are about 5 months in…tbh I thought this was serious =(
I found a whole hidden album of videos and pictures of nude women. It’s girls masturbating and doing sexual things and I think I found some videos that he saved from snap (not sure if it was from a real person or a boy but still). It just seems wrong to me because he’s intentionally hiding it from me and in servers and has accounts where it’s just NSFW. Also following and liking pictures/videos of naked/half very hot whatever women too.
She may have admitted it but she isn’t sorry she cheated. She is sorry she got caught.
You can do whatever you want with the invite. It’s your trip. But I think you need to be honest with yourself about this friendship. This sounds like one where you think you are far closer friends than you actually are.
Ahhh ok ,sorry I was wrong.
I still think her behavior was a bit off. Like if you're not gonna tell him at first why bring it up later? That's weird.
That's what he is saying about all the idiots who are justifying hiding this STD
I don’t care about the porn. A relationship is a partnership. Hasn’t worked in two years? That would be it for me.
Have you ever seen “friends” the show? There's a relationship in there you might want to to analyse.
1) did you define what being on a break meant? For many people it can mean a break-up or at least that you can't cheat because you're temporarily not together.
2) if you didn't define this, it's understandable you feel like crap but you really can't blame him either.
3) your behavior is super unhealthy. I don't know about his, but if this what it's like when you don't know things, you might want to stay single for a while until you are comfortable being by yourself.
4) if you did define what being on a break meant and it did not include going out with others then what are you doing there? Ditch that dude.
If you leave now, you're doing yourself a favor.
Make sure your post removes any and all accountability from op literally devastating this poor guy with her threats.
What if you stay and the next time she has to go away for a work trip or visit her family? How would you trust her that she won't cheat again? Because she is surely capable of doing it and hiding it for years without any remorse. Anytime she's not answering your call or replying to your text immediately you will wonder if she's doing it again. Do you really want to live! the rest of your life like this?
Lmao he’s really gonna go through with it ?
We all have our limits of what we can handle. It's all right to have boundaries.
Blind trust, pure love and complete respect.
Those 3 things are forever gone and you will never have them back
Damn! You summarised this issue pretty well.
It even makes the whole situation more sad when you are able to pinpoint exactly what was lost…
He has to cope with the fact that you gave him an incurable STI… and you’re bothered by what he said?
This makes me so sad. Im afraid it might damage my relationship with my bf too, we’ve been together for 3 years and im scared suddenly putting a bit more space between us and not allowing his dog to be around mine may upset him and get him to resent me. I feel ive tried everything with his dog but he turns around and allows her, encourages, and rewards her poor behavior KNOWING im about to have this puppy around.
Your husband is a complete man child and seems to think that he can control you. Everything he is saying and doing comes across as a serious red flag to me.
I'm the breadwinner in my relationship, I'm also the one most in shape and have expanded upon my hobbies (gaming also), and my husband just leaves me to live! my life and supports me, whilst also living his life. Hell, he wanted kids, and I wasn't prepared to give up my career, so he became a stay at home dad.
This isn't how it always was- we used to be on equal salary footing, both did nothing but play games both overweight, I had crazy hair, piercings and tattoos (only hair has changed – back to my natural ginger) – people change over time and if you're not willing to accept that, then you need to accept a break in the relationship.
Don't be with a man that tries to control you, belittles you, and believes that he has a final say in what you do.
Thank you, this truth is not talked about enough — that often the desire to “come clean” is ultimately a selfish desire, framed as some kind of morally righteous one.
Just because “honesty” is invoked doesn’t make it selfless, kind, or the right thing to do.
Sounds like a form of weaponized incompetence. He’s making you do all the mental labor because he just can’t help it! Just dump him because you just can’t help it either.
huh!? what a double standard prick!!!
I think you’ve already concluded it’s time to move on that said. Having to beg him not to cheat, is this because he’s a pos or is it because you have a fear of being cheated on? If it’s the latter is would suggest processing that before starting a new relationship. Trust is very important in a long term relationship and may be a good idea to find therapy and do some inner work before moving on. Not that I would be able to trust someone who is watching a series on things not to say to prostitutes
Noo her best friend is seeing a guy, and my gf wants me to visit her, its just the fact that im not included in this plan, like Im just thrown to the side or maybe Im just overthinking this