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And this is why I don’t scroll through people’s phones. You never know what you’ll find
OK….please read this with good eyes, as I don't mean you any evil, OP.
When I see a rather large disparity in age, I quickly look to the Older
person for behavioral, emotional, intellectual or intuitive deficits. I was going
to give your SO the benefit of the doubt since he is gainfully employed
and lives with you and your family. But OTOH, I also see that being a
bartender and living with a family reduces the need to use judgement
and critical thinking quite a bit, as most of the demands of Life Management
Skills are cared for by his environment.
That minor tantrum may have been his way of deflecting from expressing
poor judgement…… and he may even be aware that his judgement is not
100% and being reminded rather much “shames him”.
No real point….just giving a POV. FWIW.
OK that helps.
Tell her no, thank you. And date locally.
Exactly. Recreational sex. No emotional attachment.
The fact that comments like this are upvoted is really sad . What that guy asked was not unreasonable at all and has nothing to do with open or closed minds . Many people don't want to relocate . Many don't want to on-line far away from their families or have to uproot their entire lives and careers .
He had a needed discussion at the best time possible . Before things got overly serious . If i were in a relationship , didn't want to move away and had a feeling that my partner would want to , i would be having the exact same conversation . The last thing i would want is to end up in a bitter struggle for child custody where i would have to be the villain in my partner's life just to be able to see my kid .
Let's say that this relationship went on , OP and the guy had a kid and then OP got a great job opportunity abroad . The guy would either have to uproot his whole life and move with OP , in a country where he would be a foreigner , he possibly won't speak the language and very likely his career will be completely ruined , or he would have to break up . The second scenario is far more likely . What would happen with their kid then ? Would he be the absent parent seeing his kid a couple of times a year ? Would OP be the absent parent ? Actively coparenting from a different country ( possibly different continent even ) is pretty much impossible .
Reasonable people talk about their concerns . That's what he did . Unfortunately , they seem to not be a good fit for each other . But that doesn't make him in any way wrong …
I hate to say it, but this is part of how we learn. Right now you're learning what not to do in a relationship and how to properly communicate after a misunderstanding. I also think you're being way too very hot on yourself. You can't punish yourself for having random thoughts.
This is the part where you learn not to say the private part out loud. It's a good skill to have.