So you tell them this isn't working and you don't want to be in contact anymore.
No one gets to “insist” on being in your life, or that you communicate with them, or that you communicate a certain way.
So tell him sure, I will “be honest” about my feelings, and my feelings are that communicating with you isn't working for me and I want to move on, so would rather we didn't stay in touch.
Do not let this guy drag this out. You have broken up, you get to decide what that means to you, and what works for you. It isn't cruel or unkind, it is the reality of relationships- it doesn't work out, you break up, you don't have to stay in touch or put their feelings first.
Please don’t pressure her for more kids unless you agree to crap out a bowling ball. Your wife had a bad pregnancy. Her body IS torn up. She had to put up with your mean old mother. I don’t know how she doesn’t just run away into the night.
Drop the girl, keep the dog. That threat is pretty disgusting.
So you tell them this isn't working and you don't want to be in contact anymore.
No one gets to “insist” on being in your life, or that you communicate with them, or that you communicate a certain way.
So tell him sure, I will “be honest” about my feelings, and my feelings are that communicating with you isn't working for me and I want to move on, so would rather we didn't stay in touch.
Do not let this guy drag this out. You have broken up, you get to decide what that means to you, and what works for you. It isn't cruel or unkind, it is the reality of relationships- it doesn't work out, you break up, you don't have to stay in touch or put their feelings first.
Yikes
Please don’t pressure her for more kids unless you agree to crap out a bowling ball. Your wife had a bad pregnancy. Her body IS torn up. She had to put up with your mean old mother. I don’t know how she doesn’t just run away into the night.