Not even sure why you bothered replying, you've repeated the same statements as you did in the OP. Again, you didn't bother telling him at the time, you ignored his effort and it sounds like you put in very little yourself, you chose to ask someone you have never met or talked to before over your boyfriend (again dismissing his efforts) and on top of all that you don't seem to be able to communicate any of this at a basic level to him. No wonder you're getting others to do your work for you.
Think how easy it would be for you to make these two little posts per year. Compare that to how it will make your partner feel. Consider how she currently feels. Why on earth would you not just do this?
I feel like one of the goals of a romantic relationship us to improve your partner's life. This is such a low effort high yield action. And honestly, in her place, I'd be hurt as well.
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Not even sure why you bothered replying, you've repeated the same statements as you did in the OP. Again, you didn't bother telling him at the time, you ignored his effort and it sounds like you put in very little yourself, you chose to ask someone you have never met or talked to before over your boyfriend (again dismissing his efforts) and on top of all that you don't seem to be able to communicate any of this at a basic level to him. No wonder you're getting others to do your work for you.
Not at all. we're in the early stages of planning and we've done it all together so far
Social media is really crap for relationships. You both should unfollow every app.
Think how easy it would be for you to make these two little posts per year. Compare that to how it will make your partner feel. Consider how she currently feels. Why on earth would you not just do this?
I feel like one of the goals of a romantic relationship us to improve your partner's life. This is such a low effort high yield action. And honestly, in her place, I'd be hurt as well.
It's a cat, but otherwise you are correct