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Well his last two years of medical school are all rotations, so if we were to wait until they’re done then we’d have been dating for 2.5 years before we move in together. Then he’d be moving to wherever he gets placed for residency, which is also stressful times. We’re both seriously dating each other though, and 2nd year is supposed to be harder than 3rd with rotations. We’ve survived through his 2nd year so far with ease, so I’m not too worried about what happens if he gets stressed since I’ve already seen it.
I’m really confused. So you felt, he just had sex with you, but then didn’t want you to leave for some reason and was ghosting you, as evidenced by him being live! in the app you both use? Thus you went home, but now you think he went into hospital with his father after all, but was still checking the app periodically?
You are doing both of you a disservice. Not only are you retraumatizing yourself all over again, you're putting yourself in a position to now associate him with your trauma when he's done everything he's supposed to do to ensure it's comfortable and not a source of trauma for you. It's not fair to either of you. You need to talk to him and say “Hey, this is something I've been struggling with, can we take a break from sex for a bit?” Or smth to that effect. I would also highly suggest therapy because unless you work on this you're never going to be able to have a healthy sexual relationship with him. If it's too much, tell him it's too much and that you need a break. It's not fair to either of you to use your partner as a means of self harm.
It's weird, but I wouldn't make an issue of it. I don't think you need to mention it, but I'm sure you will eventually in the normal course of honesty.
But right now you're talking about someone you're “interested in.” If you want this to move forward, certainly don't bring it up now.
Why do his feelings matter? What would it change? If he does have feelings for you will it make you happy? If he doesn’t , will it make it easier for you?
You need distance from this person if you want to maintain your relationship .
Are you willing to tell Bob the truth about this situation ? , because that’s the truly important thing.At this point you ARE cheating on him, if you don’t tell him about what’s going on and your feelings.
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2) You made your bed, now you have to lay in it. Honestly, the best thing you could do for this man is letting him enjoy his son in peace. He is being courteous with you because of the kid, he would have cut all ties with you otherwise. Dont try wo win him back, you allready lost him, let him rebuild his life in peace.
So.. you basically had feelings for someone you never actually dated. And you had these feelings while you had a girlfriend..
This friend says she doesn't have feelings for you, won't admit to any feelings, she's getting married because she already said yes to an engagement. She lives very far from you now..
How does this sound like a good idea?
I'm sorry, but it really doesn't. Please tell me you see that.
Why would you want to stay with someone that you can't have a respectful discussion with? Even if you're wrong, that's not the way for him to address it.
Too drunk to consent is rape. He does not sound drunk enough to claim that he didn't know what he was doing so he was pressing an advantage on a drunk woman. He sounds like a total shit.
I'd believe her. I'd be unhappy that she allowed herself to get so drunk that she's blacking out because this could have gone much much worse for her. At least this guy stopped.
Yes agreed basically with his actions he doesn't deserve any privacy or respect whatsoever, it is completely justified to search everything of his to find any other copies of your private content he may have filmed and shared. Don't worry about him thinking you “creeped” on his stuff. He threw your privacy in the trash, it's time to address this conflict head on, protect yourself, and press charges.
Well his last two years of medical school are all rotations, so if we were to wait until they’re done then we’d have been dating for 2.5 years before we move in together. Then he’d be moving to wherever he gets placed for residency, which is also stressful times. We’re both seriously dating each other though, and 2nd year is supposed to be harder than 3rd with rotations. We’ve survived through his 2nd year so far with ease, so I’m not too worried about what happens if he gets stressed since I’ve already seen it.
I’m really confused. So you felt, he just had sex with you, but then didn’t want you to leave for some reason and was ghosting you, as evidenced by him being live! in the app you both use? Thus you went home, but now you think he went into hospital with his father after all, but was still checking the app periodically?
You are doing both of you a disservice. Not only are you retraumatizing yourself all over again, you're putting yourself in a position to now associate him with your trauma when he's done everything he's supposed to do to ensure it's comfortable and not a source of trauma for you. It's not fair to either of you. You need to talk to him and say “Hey, this is something I've been struggling with, can we take a break from sex for a bit?” Or smth to that effect. I would also highly suggest therapy because unless you work on this you're never going to be able to have a healthy sexual relationship with him. If it's too much, tell him it's too much and that you need a break. It's not fair to either of you to use your partner as a means of self harm.
Visual Impact by Rusty Moore 100%. 15 years on already.
It's weird, but I wouldn't make an issue of it. I don't think you need to mention it, but I'm sure you will eventually in the normal course of honesty.
But right now you're talking about someone you're “interested in.” If you want this to move forward, certainly don't bring it up now.
Why do his feelings matter? What would it change? If he does have feelings for you will it make you happy? If he doesn’t , will it make it easier for you?
You need distance from this person if you want to maintain your relationship .
Are you willing to tell Bob the truth about this situation ? , because that’s the truly important thing.At this point you ARE cheating on him, if you don’t tell him about what’s going on and your feelings.
You can’t run from this guy quickly enough…
You can’t run from this guy quickly enough…
You're gonna trust a man like that to raise your children? Oblivious or not, imagine the example hell be setting.
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If it's not worth asking your fiance if you can, then it's definitely not worth cheating.
1) paragraphs god dammit
2) You made your bed, now you have to lay in it. Honestly, the best thing you could do for this man is letting him enjoy his son in peace. He is being courteous with you because of the kid, he would have cut all ties with you otherwise. Dont try wo win him back, you allready lost him, let him rebuild his life in peace.
So.. you basically had feelings for someone you never actually dated. And you had these feelings while you had a girlfriend..
This friend says she doesn't have feelings for you, won't admit to any feelings, she's getting married because she already said yes to an engagement. She lives very far from you now..
How does this sound like a good idea?
I'm sorry, but it really doesn't. Please tell me you see that.
Change your surname to hers, then you all match. Problem solved. Unless, of course, this is actually about your pride, which I strongly suspect it is.
Listen to your friend who is smart and looking out for you. Sorry, that's not what you want to hear.
Why would you want to stay with someone that you can't have a respectful discussion with? Even if you're wrong, that's not the way for him to address it.
Leave him.
Too drunk to consent is rape. He does not sound drunk enough to claim that he didn't know what he was doing so he was pressing an advantage on a drunk woman. He sounds like a total shit.
I'd believe her. I'd be unhappy that she allowed herself to get so drunk that she's blacking out because this could have gone much much worse for her. At least this guy stopped.
Yes agreed basically with his actions he doesn't deserve any privacy or respect whatsoever, it is completely justified to search everything of his to find any other copies of your private content he may have filmed and shared. Don't worry about him thinking you “creeped” on his stuff. He threw your privacy in the trash, it's time to address this conflict head on, protect yourself, and press charges.
Glad you have something to occupy your mind with and also enjoying it. How's it going?
Why did you ask for a handie when you knew she wasn’t into it? I don’t understand how you could enjoy it when you know she wasn’t enjoying it.
He kinda gave her permission by his own behavior.
OP didn’t see any topless photos in their chat.
You can see tits with a shirt on.
I am on the fence on whether this is a flirty thing gone too far or, an emotional affair.