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Date: October 29, 2022
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This post ticks every box for the cliches of this sub so it’s almost certainly not real
M 39 f 37 I was snooping. Over the last few months my fiancé has been increasingly distant to the point of pushing me away when I go for a hug and kiss. My gut was telling me something is up
Totally normal that a 14 year old girl gets that her dad and his gf need alone time. I'm sure she gets it way more than him. It is actually teaching her the wrong lesson.
The question is if you 2 can come to a compromise.
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For a guy his age that has only had 5 bodies (including you), you should be glad. Try to think about the positives, he never really slept around and only has had intercourse with few people. You gotta understand that finding someone with relatively low body count gets harder as you age. So try get over it, maybe talk to someone or a professional (like therapist). If it is still a big deal, then you could always break up but “the grass isn’t always greener on the other side”, so if you truly love him it should be your last option.
Ultimately you are right. I should bring him with me. But it's making me see a lot of things that aren't right about him. So. I think I have a lot of thinking to do.
First, they’re all to blame. Your husband more so, but your “best friend” and his wife too for not checking in with you. They didn’t ask you or verify because it was easier and because your husband gave them a scapegoat.
Second, please please don’t tell the kids till after Christmas. If you tell them now the holidays will come attached with bad memories and negative feelings. Also, I think it should be your husband breaking the news. He’s the one who did everything wrong, so this is the least he can do. All the best to you and I’m glad to see you’re leaving the AH
Just finished up a round of counselling. The woman was such a monologist that actually it was more annoying than helpful. The waiting list is such a long time. I don’t know if I can do it again.
Will talk to the gp today about meds.
This man wants a transactional relationship and sees you as good breeding material. He judges you for your past and uses it as a weapon against you for emotional manipulation. Be grateful you received this red flag so early in your relationship, and move on. Tell him it’s clear to you that you have different priorities in a relationship. You will find someone who accepts you for who you are now and for your past, and who is also there to support your healing from any past trauma.
I'm not positive that you're a troll, though I am leaning that way.
I am, however, positive that you are an idiot. And so is your husband. I'm just not sure who is the bigger idiot –the man who would leave someone over eye color or the woman who keeps having kids with the man who would leave someone over eye color.
Yeah you’re paying for sex hun
Nah, don’t go to the wedding? Why would you go? That’s ridiculous. Take him to court again for the child support.
Some things, like finances, are private and not meant to be shared. That's just common sense.
I do understand that and from their reaction to all this, we have decided to not tell them about financial things from now on. For the time being, I think talking it out with them will be a good approach. I can ask her to do that.
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if he's in the US, alimony isn't a given. I have a friend who was married for 25 years, a SAHM, zero alimony. Judges are going away from it. If he does have to pay alimony at all, it's temporary.
Just show her this post, she needs to understand how much this hurts you. Her laughing after doing thise stuff gives me the creeps.
Just show her this post, she needs to understand how much this hurts you. Her laughing after doing thise stuff gives me the creeps.
I hope he made a formal will. And if your dad passed when you were 12… why wouldn't your grandpa just name you in his will?
Dude just remember, you are the one banging her now. The ex can watch whatever he wants – you got the real thing.
“I'm sorry you, as an adult, thinks someone else needs to be the one to go without when you play games expecting people to be mind readers when you say no and mean yes. You should work on that.”
wow. leave is how.
I'm curious to know how she behaves towards the kids in the mornings.
They're in denial about him so deep it's delusional. I wonder if there's a literal mental illness to describe this sort of thing?
And yes, they're twisted where he's concerned.
If they’re pressuring you, it’s probably time to end both of these relationships. Like a lot of other comments have said, they are probably going to do it anyways. Or they already have and they’re trying to get retroactive permission. Either way, they aren’t taking no for an answer here. Which should be your answer.
As very hot is it is to realize, it was probably really hard for her to have sex with someone she wasn’t attracted to because she felt like that’s something you expected to do after getting married
Any awkwardness or hurt feelings are the result of his selfishness, sense of entitlement, and lack of empathy for you. You should be absolutely livid. If he is reluctant to call it off, call the son yourself and explain that his father has no right to invite them on your private romantic get-a-way.
To catch someone red-handed means they are doing something wrong. They are not. What if you were happy for their closeness? Your making them hide it because your perceiving it as them doing something wrong and trying to shame them for it, but they are not. They're just closer to each other than you and it's very normal especially since they're the same age and it's okay.
Your wife is lying to your face because you are being a dick lol. How can you not see it?
Hmm, how did your wife learn chess? Is she thinking she was never given an easy win and she's good so this should be good for your kid too? And yet she cannot bring herself to demolish her own son?
Trauma from her own childhood.
I'd say stop playing full games with your kid for now. Just do learning games where you both voice your move decisions and your mistakes.
Let him play with a computer for full games.
Letting him always win is gonna make him think some strategies work when they absolutely fail. Defeating him every time will break his confidence – especially since he “wins” against his much better mother.
Kid should have been told that for now there's a low chance to defeat you and ~0 to defeat his mother. But, yeah, one of you is making him think he's great, the other crushes him.
Here’s the harsh reality; all relationships are a leap of faith. Every single person you date could logically cheat on you. That’s simply a reality. But you enter into relationships after getting to know the person and deciding based on what you’ve learned that they likely won’t.
The biggest problem with your premise here is that it’s bigger that your current girlfriend. So while you’re here suggesting breaking up as a solution, you’re going to have this issue with every single person you date. If that’s the case, why even bother?
We bother, because we want to believe that there are inherently good people out there. There certainly are. What people don’t seem to realize is that you largely learn this information through the process of dating and being in a relationship. Despite what people think, cheating rarely is a surprise. More often than not people either know they’re in a bad relationship, or they see crystal clear signs of a shitty partner and allow themselves to brush it off.
In saying that, if your girlfriend hasn’t given you a reason not to trust her, why assume the worst? On the other end, if you’re presented with glaring red flags in front of your face, don’t brush them off. Good luck.
thank you for answering, i appreciate it.
yeah, that's reinforces my thoughts. sometimes you have to make tough decisions. i'd move out if it didn't mean the death of the relationship. but maybe i have to reconsider that if i want to keep my sanity intact.
Nah this dude should be in jail or dead y’all are far to nice. Fuck that. You don’t fuck around with this.
You don't realise It now but you've pushed her away for no reason. What could've been will stick with you forever, I have no idea why you handled it like this.
I'm glad she has a plan for herself and her baby now at least, even if you aren't there for her she'll be okay.
Adding to the advice you were already given, keep your important documents in a safe place with you, and when you're ready to start moving out, do move your important documents to a secure location before he suspects anything. This is specially important in your case since you are an immigrant, and if he destroys your passport or other important things, your life will be made very very hot as you can't easily request all your documentation from authorities again (you can of course, if you go to the embassy of your home country, but it will be annoying and time consuming so better safe than sorry). Also keep safe all the material items that you don't want to have destroyed. Don't feel guilty that you have to lie. You're doing what you need to do to be safe. Don't let guilt overwhelm you and especially don't let guilt ever make you go back to him. Without you telling what's happening… I can tell, your absence of words is telling enough.
No relationship/love is unconditional. Depending on life and how your partners acts feelings can change. She needs more love and attention you have been giving her in the past. If you aren't willing to put effort in relationship however, it is on you not her and you can divorce if her needs are too much for you.
On the other hand if the fact you have to force her to spend her time and attention on you is unacceptable divorce is, of course always an option too. Personally, I think you should first talk with her honestly about it and ask her to be open with you as well. Perhaps couples therapy may help you in that. If both of you are willing to do their best make your relationship mutually happy and fulfilling, then this what you should put your mind into. Not grudges, thoughts whether your relation is “pure” and what not or who was more at fault things has gone worse between you.
Only once your genuine efforts in that firection should fail, I would advice considering divorce.
INFO: Are you actually in a sexual relationship with a guy who gets upset about you eating a protein bar? DTMFA.
He needs to learn that women are individuals too. There are good people & bad people everywhere regardless of their sex & otherwise, but his attitude towards women will always ensure that he will repel the decent folk. Sounds like he’s taken that ‘red pill’ & has become a misogynist…. I mean what is he getting out of these ‘honest’ women other than sex? Respect is a two way street & he is going broke paying for the illusion of that
INFO: you’re giving us random non sequitur chunks of information that clearly build a bigger picture that we cannot see. i can’t even ask you for anything specific, just to elaborate on everything
ive never cheated or was ever unfaithful
Her privacy goes out the window when she’s been a horrible spouse who is doing extremely shady shit. This isn’t some fling & you’re just some overly obsessive hook up, you’re married, she’s your wife, & she’s doing terrible shit to you & your marriage so this is absolutely your business.
Cheaters always want to pull that “I can’t believe you went through my phone” as if that’s the worst thing being done in the relationship, not her trying to cheat on you by planning hookups with strangers? You can’t be reasonable with people like her, there is no talking things out. She will always play the victim & argue so much that she always feels right & it’ll even make you feel in the wrong. You are not in the wrong. She’s being a horrible wife & a terrible human.
Not all of us live in cities or in America, not all of us live! where there's a lot of crime.
Because his childish view of the world is why he couldn't deal with the situation in the first place, that immaturity is just continuing into the comments section.
Medical professional here: has he been to the doctor lately? First of all he might be hiding something that way. Secondly his behavior could be indicators of some neurological disorders, which could need intervention pretty quickly.
Also is he seeing a therapist? Are you? Maybe you’d both benefit from seeing a marriage counselor since you don’t feel like communication is up to snuff.
Take care. Hang in there.
I may be a bit biased, as I went through a very similar situation last year. My ex and I had been together for 8 years, and for the last 5+ years, I was essentially his mother. Working full time (he was unemployed), and doing all of the house work. His excuse was depression, and despite my many attempts to get him to start seeing a therapist, he refused, and made no attempt to change.
It wasn't until I got really sick and was unable to do basic things for myself (and he still refused to help out) that I realized how miserable I was and how unhealthy our relationship was.
It took another 2 months after I recovered, and multiple attempts to end things with him (and another month for him to move out). But I haven't looked back since.
Leaving someone when you're afraid they're gonna hurt themselves is the hardest thing I've personally done, but you have to put yourself first. You aren't responsible for anyone else's happiness, and you deserve to get out.
Wishing you the best!
You're not abusive. You have done the right thing.
After reading so much on reddit about adhd I encouraged my fiancé to get tested as he had all the classic signs.
Tested twice, they couldn't diagnose.
They said he has some markers for it but none of them strong enough to indicate adhd in full.
Was very frustrating and a waste of money.
Do not let this woman back into your life. She betrayed you in the worst way by leaving how she did and when she did. Now she has regrets – congrats, you won the breakup. But you don't need this emotional turmoil in your life, you have enough problems to deal with already.
When I cry, the phlegm and mucus that gets overproduced and builds up in my nose triggers my gag reflex and makes me vomit. Literally that entire nose/throat area gets clogged up and vomiting happens involuntarily to clear it so I can breathe properly. Sometimes I accidentally breathe the mucus in and I have a coughing fit, which in turn triggers my gag reflex and I vomit from the coughing. She could have a similar situation going on with a sensitive gag reflex?
Even if they are both in complete agreement, this is not a good look because at some point the children should have some say in their education. I mean she's in law he's in physics, suppose they have a kid who wants to study art?
This was actually the exact situation of my nephew. His mother is a topnotch lawyer, his father is a pharmacist. The nephew is really smart, I mean he gets top marks in everything without even trying. He wants to be a writer. His father wanted him to study science and become an engineer or doctor, but he refused. His mother backed him up.
He's now spent ten years writing a novel, while also studying and getting top marks in a Master in Italian. He does a bit of freelance teaching and editing here and there, and otherwise he and his pregnant wife are living frugally off the stipend she gets as a PhD student. They are happy and who are we to judge?
Should’ve added this: he had a child already waay before we met that I knew about and I got into the relationship knowing this.
Abusers are classic narcissists who play victim. He’s not worth your time or effort. You deserve better!
Why don't you just ask him how he feels about her and if he sees a future? If he's unsure then let him know you would want to check it out but don't want to step on his toes. It'll either push him into it or he will back up. Either way it'll be more of a concrete idea instead of wishy washy ville.
She is immature and needs to quit. That ain't right. Seems like she trying to buddy up with the other girl and play head games with you. You shouldnt have to live with stupid games. Anyway hopefully someone could move. Maybe you can have the neutral girl say something to the bully girl. Like tell her shes creating a negative energy and making a crappy atmosphere for the whole house and that we need to all get along if we are going to live! together. Nobody should have to deal with an attitude when they come home. Home is supposed to be a place to unwind and relax. She walking around like shes a queen and runs the place . Not cool.
The last time I hit a girl (my older sister), I was in 8th or 9th grade. I have been married 18 years. The closest to 'hitting' someone was where I was racing to my front door to get to my own bathroom and my sister-in-law decided to prevent me from entering my house to yell at me over something her son said about me. I moved her out of the way to go take a piss.
Guess what: that night I slept in the jail because she tripped as I hurried past her. No, I'm not just sugar coating. She literally fell and called the cops.
If he shoved you, that was assault. If he left a mark, you should get it documented.
This guy is a troll
Annoying. It’s annoying behavior.
Annoying. It’s annoying behavior.
I do not know what to do anymore
You…. leave?
Like, why would you even think of staying in this toxic shitstain of a relationship?
I’ve expressed that I hate this several times but he says this is just the way he talks to people.
Have you ever been in a relationship with an autistic person? It's not all that easy to get them to change – even if they want to.
INFO: Do you live together?
You probably aren't being firm enough. She is blatantly disrespecting your boundaries and not listening to you. Since telling her gently hasn't worked, she needs tough love. It's ultimatum time. Define how many days per week (on average) you will be available to her and stay firm. If you aren't feeling up for a visit, say no. If she is too touchy-feeling say stop and move away from her. Model what type and how much affection you like. Explain that not getting enough personal space will cause you to end the relationship. She needs to hear it.
You also need to be receptive of her needs too, but you two need compromise and balance. She is likely anxious and insecure, so suggest she gets therapy.
You don’t think she should pay a bigger share if she also has a baby? She and baby will consume more utilities than you. Where is the baby’s father?
In return you promise to be less controlling with each other and have more trust?