do you want to have children in the future? is he/ you aware you’d likely gain weight during your pregnancy? even if you work it all off for at 3-4 months you’re going to have a big belly. do you want to stay with a man who may not be attracted to you while you are pregnant/very vulnerable?
i cant tell if your husband is upset more with your constant need to be dieting than your actual weight…if it’s the latter i think you should find someone fine with you being 67-83 kg.
He’s genuinely one of the most observant, kind, thoughtful, and smart people I have met in my life and I don’t think I’ve ever met someone so insanely similar to me.
Bullshit. If he was so kind, thoughtful and generous he would've rejected his advances and not had sex with you. Obviously he's a flattered that a 18 year old finds him sexy but he shouldn't have take advantage of you.
This is known as Ephebophilia where a older person takes active in mid to late adolescents.
You are barely out of your teens why tf the you are hooking you with a guy who's the age of your dad. Daddy issues ig?? Bad childhood?
There's nothing right with this relationship. Break if off and try to be in therapy.
Porn is a problem for the relationship if it impacts your sex life with your partner. There are healthy ways to consume porn and there are destructive ones aswell. Porn shouldn’t be seen as cheating by either side just a tool for masturbation when sex isn’t an option for one reason or another. There’s also ways to involve porn into you and your partner’s relationship in a healthy way.
so sip some courage juice and just do it. it's basic respect towards him and in the end you will feel better about it.
do you want to have children in the future? is he/ you aware you’d likely gain weight during your pregnancy? even if you work it all off for at 3-4 months you’re going to have a big belly. do you want to stay with a man who may not be attracted to you while you are pregnant/very vulnerable?
i cant tell if your husband is upset more with your constant need to be dieting than your actual weight…if it’s the latter i think you should find someone fine with you being 67-83 kg.
Yesss you have no idea how many relationship videos I watched and how many times I identified myself as the “red flag” ?
He’s genuinely one of the most observant, kind, thoughtful, and smart people I have met in my life and I don’t think I’ve ever met someone so insanely similar to me.
Bullshit. If he was so kind, thoughtful and generous he would've rejected his advances and not had sex with you. Obviously he's a flattered that a 18 year old finds him sexy but he shouldn't have take advantage of you.
This is known as Ephebophilia where a older person takes active in mid to late adolescents.
You are barely out of your teens why tf the you are hooking you with a guy who's the age of your dad. Daddy issues ig?? Bad childhood?
There's nothing right with this relationship. Break if off and try to be in therapy.
Porn is a problem for the relationship if it impacts your sex life with your partner. There are healthy ways to consume porn and there are destructive ones aswell. Porn shouldn’t be seen as cheating by either side just a tool for masturbation when sex isn’t an option for one reason or another. There’s also ways to involve porn into you and your partner’s relationship in a healthy way.