So he is cheating, I mean…. He be taking her out to dinner, he doesn’t want her to know that he is married. Just tell him that is over and move out ( I mean it may seem very hot decision based on some “ allegations “ however girl he will gaslight you to the moon and waste your time ) Start packing up and move out, just write down a note telling him “ I know about you and her” and guarantee you you’ll receive 100 msgs like
Our marriage hasn't been perfect by any means. And we had grown apart the last years. I was still in love with her and still only wanted her. Prior to her telling me we hadn't been intimate for 3 months and I was ready to get divorced. I have even told her so.
For this to have been going on for so long and the lies/lying is making it hard to trust her and I don't know if I ever will. Trust is a huge thing for me as if I can't trust you in one aspect of our lives how am I to trust you in all aspects of our lives.
You’re awful. You need to be single either forever or until you get serious therapy and become a less horrible person.
It absolutely is not. He’s old enough to assume she would see him as a loving family member not a potential lover
So he is cheating, I mean…. He be taking her out to dinner, he doesn’t want her to know that he is married. Just tell him that is over and move out ( I mean it may seem very hot decision based on some “ allegations “ however girl he will gaslight you to the moon and waste your time ) Start packing up and move out, just write down a note telling him “ I know about you and her” and guarantee you you’ll receive 100 msgs like
“ bae it’s not what it looks like”
“ I can explain “
“ she is just a friend “
Yes and no
Our marriage hasn't been perfect by any means. And we had grown apart the last years. I was still in love with her and still only wanted her. Prior to her telling me we hadn't been intimate for 3 months and I was ready to get divorced. I have even told her so.
For this to have been going on for so long and the lies/lying is making it hard to trust her and I don't know if I ever will. Trust is a huge thing for me as if I can't trust you in one aspect of our lives how am I to trust you in all aspects of our lives.