I cry a few times each week when I’m talking to my husband about serious stuff or just when I feel really happy about us being together. I’m a crier. He knows this and accepts it. My dog gets concerned, however, and tries to comfort me.
It’s just something your partner is going to have to learn to accept about you. Crying a few times a month isn’t bad. And it sounds like you’re working on yourself in therapy. DBT can help you with that emotional regulation. Maybe discuss that with your therapist?
Well… he is definitely supporting the sociopath diagnosis…
I cry a few times each week when I’m talking to my husband about serious stuff or just when I feel really happy about us being together. I’m a crier. He knows this and accepts it. My dog gets concerned, however, and tries to comfort me.
It’s just something your partner is going to have to learn to accept about you. Crying a few times a month isn’t bad. And it sounds like you’re working on yourself in therapy. DBT can help you with that emotional regulation. Maybe discuss that with your therapist?
cheated on me a couple of times in the past
Brother, you need to respect yourself. When you tolerate cheating all you do is let them know they can walk all over you and you'll take it.
Just seems silly. If it grossed out the person I loved, I’d simply drink some water before a kiss. No need to force it.