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Sounds like she is taking someone home and doing what she needs to do then letting you know you can come over. If its only 7 minutes away maybe you need to go stake out her place while you are waiting for her to come over.
You’re right, and somewhere i know that too. but whenever she cries on call it just breaks me and i cant see her like that. it feels like she’s being honest about it but im really scared because im in a completely new country now, i dont have any friends here and she was the only person i could go to after a long day :/
It sounds like you were talking about actual relationships and not her number of partners. This sounds like a simple miscommunication. If you're that curious, ask her how many people she's had sex with. Then ask her how many people she's kissed. And then how many people she's dated. She likely has a different number for each (if she remembers), like a lot of people, because they're not the same. You don't always go on dates with people you sleep with. You don't always end up in relationships with people you've dated. You don't sleep with every person you've kissed.
You've based your opinion on her on the fact that's she's only slept with 5 people, when we're not sure that's exactly what she told you. Stop assuming things. If you can't get passed it, talk to a therapist.
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Sounds like she is taking someone home and doing what she needs to do then letting you know you can come over. If its only 7 minutes away maybe you need to go stake out her place while you are waiting for her to come over.
You’re right, and somewhere i know that too. but whenever she cries on call it just breaks me and i cant see her like that. it feels like she’s being honest about it but im really scared because im in a completely new country now, i dont have any friends here and she was the only person i could go to after a long day :/
It sounds like you were talking about actual relationships and not her number of partners. This sounds like a simple miscommunication. If you're that curious, ask her how many people she's had sex with. Then ask her how many people she's kissed. And then how many people she's dated. She likely has a different number for each (if she remembers), like a lot of people, because they're not the same. You don't always go on dates with people you sleep with. You don't always end up in relationships with people you've dated. You don't sleep with every person you've kissed.
You've based your opinion on her on the fact that's she's only slept with 5 people, when we're not sure that's exactly what she told you. Stop assuming things. If you can't get passed it, talk to a therapist.