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If you didn’t go back to do the after vasectomy test to prove it was successful- no sperm in cum…. Then you had unprotected sex you’re an AH… this is probably why she thinks you’re a deadbeat. I would be livid if I was her. Why haven’t you gone and established paternity? I wouldn’t trust you to follow through on raising this child with her especially with all the possible health and cognitive issues that come with a born at 20 weeks premature baby, you don’t seem very trustworthy.
But it’s double standards (in my opinion). Guys get high fives for sleeping around and women get judged. Not saying you’re doing the judging by the way, just making a point on how society is.
if he would’ve successfully gotten her number, this would’ve been a whole other story overall.
You are seriously coming to so many conclusions that weren't even insinuated in the post at all in the first place.
Okay, say he got her number. They could have texted 5 times and then ghosted each other. Now what? They could have had a single date and it sucked so badly she pretends to get an emergency call and leaves. Now what? And so on and so forth.
It. Didn't. Happen. He didn't even get her number. That shows how much compatibility they really had: literally none at all.
Literally. None. At. All. That is reality. That's what really happened. Not a what-if. Not a could-have-been. You want to give up reality for the sake of a could-have-been. That does not make sense.
a huge reason she valued their relationship so much and felt so special to him was because she believed he was the first man to not even consider her sister when it came down to the two of them, the first man to actively pursue her and not even be interested in looking in her sister’s direction, for the first time not making her feel inferior of the two
So does she actually like the boyfriend at all or does she just like being first pick?
Because if she only likes that she was first pick, and that is literally the only reason she's giving him the time of day, then she should break up with that guy, he doesn't deserve that.
it isn’t bizarre for her to feel differently after learning this
Never said she shouldn't feel what she feels. What matters is the actions you take because of those feelings.
Letting those feelings invalidate all of her other feelings (y'know, of being happy, safe, loved, like never before, OP's words) and act like all those other feelings just go 'poof' cause this new one came along, isn't rational.
he is, in fact, just like every other man she’s known.
Is he? Really? Every other man she's known has made her happy, safe, loved, like never before?
Like for real, if their entire relationship is “you picked me first” that's very shallow and narcissistic of her. Unlike you, I'm giving OP the benefit of the doubt that although she feels upset by this, that it's not her only feeling about the situation.
I know not everyone is the same, but my fiancé is also a super private person at work. He had been working there 4-5 months before people realized we had a dog kind of private. They always knew I existed, but outside my name and that I’m a student, he didn’t talk about us much. But you know what he did the morning after we got engaged? Walked into work and proudly announced it to everyone.
I’m not saying he’s automatically guilty, but it’s definitely weird and sketchy. You need to find out what’s going on.
I can’t imagine any reason for him to say this other than to hurt your feelings and make you feel that you’re not special or desirable.
I have ADHD and really struggle with chores. I've had partners in the past that did way more around the house than me. If one of my exes that was doing laundry for me for years suddenly started doing laundry separately, I'd interpret that as a sign I'm not lifting my weight enough in the household. I'd first ask them if everything is ok how we can be better partners.