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Ummm therapy?
See a doctor for your condition. If he needs sex and isn't willing to do the work then he isn't a good partner for you right now. Stop being a doormat and drop him.
I understand why you’re feeling so concerned and confused. It sounds like your previous relationship was difficult, and it impacted the way that you view porn and masturbation. That’s normal in situations like this.
My advice would be to take things one step at a time. Remember that there is no “normal” when it comes to watching porn or masturbating – everyone has different experiences with these topics. Spend some time reflecting on how you feel about pornography, as well as asking yourself what makes you comfortable or uncomfortable with the subject of masturbation.
Once you figure out where your boundaries are and set them in place, consider talking to your current partner about those boundaries if needed. Communication is key in all relationships! Ultimately, remember that trusting yourself rather than trying to fit into society's idea of “normal” will help make this process easier for you over time.
It is not selfish to feel this way and it’s not selfish of you to get an abortion. You are tying yourself to that guy for 18+ years. You have your whole life ahead to have babies with people you actually like if that is what you want. If you think he’s going to freak tell him and his family it was a miscarriage
Think more primal. It's not wrong to play around with that IMO. Dance, clothing, make-up all these are teasing our sexual senses.
Take back your keys
Yeah but… It's decided by coaches and teachers right? I wouldn't want to reward a shitty attitude either.. And isn't sport about sportsmanship?
Lying scumbag gaslighting cheater
Leave leave leave
Dude, there is no marriage!! Get a lawyer and help her pack!
He can't sell it without you signing, but you need to sit down and hash this out, once and for all.
He says it’s a requirement of a relationship for him and anyone who cares for him would do it.
Fuck that noise.
I am not fond of your reletionship. You're putting far too much into it and getting nothing out of it. Sounds like he has the expectation to serve him in full…
If he is 34 and has this attitude towards relationships, you're in for a depressing outcome.
If you want to correct this (against my opinion) .. the best way you deal with this, is for you to stand up for yourself and stop being taken advantage of. Stop enabling this type of shit.
My opinion: This guy is going to waste your youth… Nothing of value he can offer you for a future besides you taking care of him and handling all financial responsibility. Like massages?! Are you eff'ing kidding me? He is making an issue out that?! You have so much more of a right to be upset about than him receiving a massage. If he is your best friend… best friends do not take advantage of the other like he has been.
Honestly you sound extremely difficult on-line with, and quite overbearing. I’m sure this is only the surface of how you micromanage him.
Visiting his nephew isn’t time for you to be schooling him on “parenting.”
Do your own laundry. It will solve a lot of problems right off the top. You’re a grown ass adult and don’t need someone else washing your clothes if you’re going to yell at him for how he does it. Because I don’t believe for an instant that you’re nice about it.
At 10 weeks pregnant pregnancy occurred approximately 8 weeks ago. 9 weeks if you consider sperm can online 7ish days in good conditions and a luteal phase approximately 14 days.
Relationships over. She pretty much told you this. Leave with ur dignity intact(ish) my dude.
? good attempt. We both know that’s not what I said.
She never explained that to me, but another day she said she would pay half for it. Just feel that that was very selfish of her to do.
OP, you’re making an awful decision as it is to not give her the agency to make her own choice on whether to stay with you or not. at least have the decency to tell her the truth
Your last paragraph…”As far as…” your list makes it easy for you to slip out in the middle of the night.
How can she make plans before you??? Are you not planning it out in advance or does she say she has plans at the same time you do?? Either way she sucks..and wants to suck everyone else ?♀️
You guys need to get on the same page w finances. This is hugely important. Many divorces are caused by financial issues. He is living beyond his means and to me has no real plan to change.
He’s probably just paying the minimum balances on the cards. $17k is enormous if he only makes $40k. Probably $3500-$4000 on interest per year before even reducing the balance.
I feel like compatibility is not the right word, because financial decisions are actions not genetics or a sexual orientation, and you can always change your habits. So it’s more like irreconcilable differences unless he’s open to change.
If he has no plans to tackle the debt I think you have no option tbh. Can’t get sucked into that with him.
Nope. Do not apologise to her.
She told you what the relationship was – basically FWB. So you decided that you were going to enjoy yourself with someone else.
You probably should formally tell her that as she’s too immature for a relationship, that you are not interested in being FWB anymore. And for her to stop contacting you.
Then block her on everything.
Hope the new girl works out.
I'm on his side. She has to show him why he has to trust her. She's lucky he even gave her a chance after the cheating.
Lots of therapists are pretty bad at their jobs, and a therapist who is good with one issue might be bad with another issue. You don't have to do something just because your therapist told you to. A therapist's job is to give you tools for self-actualization, not to make your major life decisions for you. It's very common for people to go through multiple therapists before finding one who truly helps them. Talking a client out of leaving an abusive marriage goes against therapeutic best practices.
Some therapists believe in avoiding divorce at all costs regardless of how immiserating it may be, even if it results in one of the spouses or their children getting abused. Sometimes this is because they have personal or religious objections to divorce which they may or may not overtly express, and are using therapy as an opportunity to push their anti-divorce beliefs on their clients. The therapist will pat themselves on the back for a job well done of saving the marriage at any cost, secure in the knowledge that their client, not them, is the one who will have to suffer the abusive spouse.
If you are not the sort of person who believes it is always wrong to divorce no matter what, it might be wise to get another individual therapist.
You've given your husband multiple chances to change, but he's still being cruel to you on purpose because he finds it entertaining. All the “change” you've described seeing in your husband sounds more like appeasement to forestall divorce than true inner change. He's only dialed down the abuse instead of stopping. Ask yourself where you are willing to draw the line, how many years of your life you are willing to spend waiting for him to change. Ask yourself if you would tell a good friend to stay with a husband who treated her the way yours does?
If you wait until the abuse is truly intolerable and you're at your absolute breaking point, it will be much harder to leave.
OP, I am massive, and I would not put up with that bullshit from a partner. Migraines have nothing fucking to do with your lack of exercise. Neither does he have to have white noise. Jackass.
I decided, I'm keeping the baby.
You choose someone that makes wise actions and avoids compromising positions. Shows they are actively interested in being faithful.
If you have to force them then they aren’t going to be. If you have to force her to make wise decisions. It’s NEVER happening.
This is really about your poor decision making. Not hers. You already know the lies and bad decisions she makes but you choose to ignore them.
Bad decisions don’t create good results.
it's such a vibe I can totally understand lol
Thanks. Yes, I moved out. Asked him not to be there when I come for my things, but he was anyway… Like a completely different person all of a sudden. But, you are right. Hope so. ?
So you are 23 and you say you've been in love with her for 10 years. So you were 13 and she was 10 when this happened? Dude.
She's clearly one of the first people you've formed a strong, intimate (though not romantic) bond with. You probably latched on to these thoughts of being in love with her because she's one of the only people who's shown you that she genuinely loves you and treats you like someone to be loved. This is confusing a familial love for romantic love and, from the sounds of it, letting it become an infatuation.
But I'm not a therapist or a mental health professional, so I'm not an expert. That's just my 2 cents as a regular ole human being.
funny one , ahaha
Of course! It's the truth. If you ever need to talk feel free to pm me!
As someone who had a terrible Mom similar to your “partner”, foster care was a break for me. Trust me, 1 good parent is better than a terrible parent and a parent who puts all their effort into keeping terrible parent going. Leave if you ever want to give your daughter hope of a normal life.
Or ask the wife's husband. The husbands friend will know that he is throwing him under the bus trying to save his own ass. Hopefully the husband will lose his friend and OP in the process because thats what he deserves. Cheating asshole