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I got a job opportunity in another country and my ex told me that he could take care of them but I already want to finish all this i love my pets but I won't be able to bring them to me for a few more months and I don't want to disrespect my partner
Thank you for the response. He used to be so caring and patient with me, but now he uses the excuse of him coming to the end of his tether because he’s been trying to get me to ‘sort it out’ (meaning my life in general) for the past year. I had to move in a few months ago because I lost my flat, my parents refused to let me move back and there isn’t really anywhere else I can go. I’m starting to feel really hopeless and it’s pushing me down further. I’m a SAHM so I feel like I have so many people relying on me, but no one for me to rely on
I went through almost the same exact thing. Long story short, my ex MIL caused me and my baby’s father (her son) to break up. It was so toxic that I became afraid for me and my daughters well being. I swear she wanted to take my daughter from me and raise her with her own son. She didn’t like another woman in her sons life at all. She was evil to me. Anyway, I ended moving to a different country and found a better life and father for my daughter. It almost never works out unless your husband stands up to his mom and creates clear boundaries with her.
If she did indeed drug you- It's a very serious breach of trust. I hope you find the answers you need. Sending good vibes.
Why would she need to remove her bra for breastfeeding. Sister might be covering for her brother..
Ok well then have fun. Not sure why you sought advice if you’re just going to say “but I can’t leave/don’t want to leave.” You’ve made a decision. Deal with it. Or make a change and figure out how to live an independent life.
First off, do not admit to this unless you think you're guilty. It sounds like she's confused about things and you could put yourself in ruinous trouble if you admit to things just to comfort her. Don't tolerate bs charges from a spouse ever.
I would have to side with your friend-zoner, dating scumbags tells everyone you don’t have a good judge of character or very high standards for yourself.
You are just hurting coz your ego is bruised ..
Don’t apologize. The damage is already done most people even if you apologize she is probably going to say something that will riled up your emotions again and why go through that
You are the side piece, that is his real gf/wife. Ya you only were allowed when she wasn't there, how do you know they have separate rooms? Just because there are two bedrooms that doesn't mean they sleep separately.
Not funny
if she was your ex of like 2 years and you guys broke up a few months back or it was heart breaking or something then forsuuure or if it's known that there was a heavy history or love there forever, yup. But you guys were like 16 years old? I have to go with the friend on this one. I mean, why does it make you uncomfortable? is there a reason you could explain to him(and/or us) better that is beyond just that you feel like it's bro code and she's off-limits forever?
Well if the primary point is sex, I would like to know if I did a decent job, and how I could do better
Don’t listen to these fools. You did nothing wrong. She was being childish and petulant. Don’t apologize. Remind her that you asked her multiple times. She had her chance.
The age difference is relevant given that you don't work or go to school there…how did you end up there anyway and why are you living with someone when yiu have no means of your own? Like did you two talk before you turned 18 or was this something happening before you turned 18? Not being judgy but this is… interesting to say the least especially since you have no other support system outside of him.
To answer your question yes bring it up to your partner is important. And I guess try finding local hobby groups on fb and other websites. Maybe try and find activities like community/recreational clubs, either get a job and/or take inexpensive classes for stuff even if it's like cooking or something similar that's a fun skill to have. Look up community events, namely those where you more or less have to interact with people to participate
She has lied to you and will continue to do so. Ending it is the right choice.
Yeah but I’m seeing someone we all know it’s when you are at the beginning of a relationship and not when you have been 1+ years together and you live together as well lol at this point I will expect OP saying “he said I have a GF, but I was expecting Fiancé” lol
What in the alabama
The alcohol was a great truth serum.
She has shown she will jump for the next guy who has you beat in the 3 categories. If you were not next to her, she would have been even more forward and making strong advances.
Good riddance.
She sounds exhausting. You need to tell her that this can’t continue.
Sounds like she also needs to get a job so that she has something else to focus on. She might then also realise that if you are at work, you can’t constantly be texting/reading texts
Chamo, yo llego para decirle que sus ideas son viejas y escritas por hombres que solo querían controlar a la gente.
Suerte
How often do y’all have sex? Did this start out of nowhere? Or did something happen and then it led to no affection? Yeah I’ve been through this. Just need more information.
This is why I feel like most of these posts are fake.
You’re nearly 40 with a child and you just found out about your OH’s ‘infidelity’ and your first thought isn’t ‘we need to talk to a lawyer and a mediator’ it’s ‘go on Reddit and talk about kicking her out.
Sure. It’s just not believable.
You have to talk with him. Trust me when I tell you that this is not going to work when you have a child. He’s going to resent that child because a baby needs a lot of time. I’m like you. I need time alone. Need. I would insist on therapy and the sooner the better. Hopefully with someone he has to leave the house to see. This is sounding pathological and it needs to be addressed if you love him and want to spend your life together. He needs to know this could drive you away. You can’t even shower alone. He needs more help than you are equipped to give him.
Hey, that marathon only ends when you reach the proverbial hills.
I've never said such gross offense. But the macho douches I've had as “friends” and classmates would totally do it. The goal would be negging, as you said. The main objective would be to show off how experienced they are, how many women they have met, to advertise themselves as prized objects of desire, to show off how good they are in bed.
The second goal is to try to trigger in you a “I won't be less than” response, in which they expect you to feel insecure and to try to compensate your “subpar” area there with an enhanced performance. They would even expect you to ask, even beg, for tips on how they would be ever pleased.
The third one would be to elicit in you a fear of losing him, under the logic, “he could easily get better ham sandwiches”, so you would be over complacent.
One more? I'm sure they could expect many more pleasant outcomes with that “one simple trick”. Kudos to you for not falling for any.
What are you planning to do just find a random woman to have a child with? Knock up a one night stand? You want a baby that bad that you are willing to divorce your wife? What if you do get a woman pregnant and the baby has down syndrome or something else that runs in the family of the woman? Your way of thinking is way off. You should see a therapist.
Can’t she open a window?
Btw I think it’s clear you should divorce him. I mean you already did 1.5 years ago but you gave him another chance— which lead to nothing. So it looks like this time it will be for good.
You are stringing her along, for your timeline
He should get underwear/boxers that come higher up, not low-rise… perhaps gift him some?
“No other resources”? Women’s shelters. Family members. Friends. You’re not the only person in the world in an abusive relationship, and your situation isn’t rare. It’s actually sickeningly common. You have a choice – leave or stay. If you stay, you’re preparing you, your child and dog for potential death.
If this was about just you, then yeah ppl would be jerks. You get to decide for yourself to be in an abusive relationship. But here it's about a child and a dog. You are not protecting them and putting your bf over their literal, physical safety.
She’s playing games with you weather you have Asperger’s or not
I appreciate your kind words ❤️ I'm so glad you got out and away from such a horrible person. Just try to remember not to blame yourself–the mind games are strong with these ones. Take care
Who initiated the original break-up? If him, fuck'em. If you, then, even though you are not in the wrong, it definitely looks bad.
Good luck…but this is a reminder that it's often best to stay broken up
Any chance you have adhd? I relate.
Is it weird? Not really. But since you both got together so young usually there is a time where the thought about what you might be missing out on hits. But if you are both happy and in a healthy relationship there's no issue.
I think your family are awful and being away from them is good for you.
That being said, if you want to try and show them the truth, you might try looking up some information about the topic live and send it to them. There are articles and first hand accounts out there about this type of stuff. Maybe they will listen to it from another source or change their tune if they see the info for themselves. Again, they are not worth the effort of doing this, but it’s up to you.
A guy who abused one woman may not necessarily abuse every woman he ever dated and it has nothing to do with one woman being better or worse. You can find some information and send it to them, but to reiterate again, I don’t think it’s worth it. Your family sound horrible.
My ex (43) started dating his now wife (22 I think?) a month after she went to her senior prom. These things happen; I'm sad to say no one in his life seems to have a problem with it, which makes me all the more happier that I fucked off to the other side of the country when we split up.
I am so happy for you.
Says herearlythatyou feel nervous and to excuse your clumsiness . Mistakes will be easier to address.
She was paying a very small payment, and I just didn't notice until I did.
She had several separate loans. So, I helped her go through with one of those student loan consolidators. We got locked into a decent fixed rate now
If the refund window for you has expired tell the cousin to refund his trip and then buy your portion out instead.
He wants permission to cheat. Pure and simple. And I bet if you found someone first he'd be the one back tracking. Tell him someone at work has been interested in you for a while and see what his reaction is. Bet he'll be pissed!
She may be in love with her friend
Then she can give them her “correct address”
The only way to make amends is for him to pay her friends off? That’s what you got out of this post?
It isn't a joke if no one is laughing. It isn't a joke if it is said to demean, belittle, or degrade you. It isn't a joke if you, the recipient of said joke, are hurt by it.
Your boyfriend is just an asshole.
This is abuse. You've asked him not to, and it continues, therefore there is no sensible recourse other than breaking up.
He wants a mommy not a girlfriend. Please leave this man child. He is a mess.
Yes
Also, she's only 27 – but she turns 28 next month, so I just rounded up.
Well there's always a therapist, but additionally, there's a way to discuss things that doesn't make your friends turn against your partner. If you're framing everything as you vs. your spouse rather than asking for advice on resolving a mutual issue, either you're in an unhealthy relationship that you should reevaluate, or you should modify the antagonistic way you're thinking/talking about them, because poisoning your friends against your partner isn't great for anyone.
There was a murderer about 15 years ago who met his victims on Craigslist. I believe they were offering “massage services.”
You don’t. You grow a backbone and ghost her. She garbage
You can't
Wtf man… emotional cheating on your pregnant wife… ??????? you’re both ?️?️?️
So you don't just move on. You have to grieve. It's normal. You lost something very important to you. Delete her number, delete everything and practice naked on other thoughts. I was trying to get over someone once, and I just couldn't do it. Still think of her to this day, years later and long for her. But one trick I did was recognize my mind was doing this. I suddenly started imaging a lightening bolt every time I started thinking of her. A big ZAP. I could almost hear it. It interrupted things and I was able to get back to normal. It was just a Jedi mind trick lol.