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Birth Date: 1992-12-15
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Date: October 31, 2022
Please give yourself a break. This isn’t all your fault. You two are having REALLY normal new parent issues. They can totally be fixed if you’re both willing to put in the effort.
There are kind of two different things here that should probably get uncoupled: sex and intimacy. How often do you and your husband have intimacy without sex? Do you cuddle watching tv, have conversations that aren’t venting, have date nights together, give each other massages, just spend time enjoying each other’s company? I’m betting not. You should carve out time to do those things for yourselves and each other. Two things will happen: you’ll feel closer to each other without having more sex, but also you’ll most likely end up having more sex anyway. When you feel happy and loved and not starved for that connection, I bet you’ll feel a lot more in the mood a lot more often.
Also, what’s your husband doing to help you GET in the mood? Women tend to have more responsive desire than men do, which is why men are more often ready to go all the time and it can sometimes take women a while longer to get in the right headspace. You’re not responsible for getting in that headspace all on your own. Is your husband making sure the housework is done and the home is tidy to help remove distractions? Is he helping you manage your mother’s favoritism and supporting you with that? Is he helping you remove stress and obstacles from your day to help you relax or is he just adding more stress by constantly asking for sex? If he tried he could do a lot to help you want to have sex with him.
Look, you are in a really overwhelming phase of life right now and that’s not your fault. But you and your husband need to stick together and work as a team to become a more functional and happier family than you are right now. It’s troubling that your husband’s reaction to conflict is literally running away. It’s not only immature, it’s potentially dangerous. You guys are parents now; what if there was an emergency with one of your kids and he’s unreachable?
You both have some stuff to hash out and some promises to make to each other about how to love each other better, care for each other better, and fight with each other better and more productively. But if your husband would rather run away than put in the work to be a better partner to you, that’s not fixable.
This is now a dangerous situation and you cannot bring your child into this living environment. Get out get out get out go to your parents or friends and tell them what's happening. Call the bank and sever your info from those accounts so he can have no more access to any deposits you make. Do not marry him.
Nop, thats a very short minded and biased reading that you are doing of what Im saying.
Point 1) OP clearly stated that she suffers a lot of mental illnesses.
Point 2) She got a complete overhaul style change in the spawn of a year, while going from a “standart western” feminine style to a full pierced face, overweight and coloured hair style. This alone its sign of mental inestability. Changing your hair colour, having a piercing, a tatoo… but a FULL change over one year, from a person that we already know that has mental problems? Do you need me to explain to you why 1 + 1 equals 2?
Point 3 ) Im not critizicing anyone in my post, Im just stating facts about her behaviour, and the most probable outcome that I see in that relationship.
Point 4) She can of course drees anyway she wants, and behave anyway she wants, thats called individual freedom and Im a full supporter of it above anything else. And also of course OP has every right to not be attracted to her.
Point 4 ) She does not need to make anyone happy, not even herself (wich seems to be the case). But hey, let me give you a life tip with a book quotation: “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” – Robert Heinlein. Do not take it as a literal thing, but in general terms if you feel that you dont “need” to make your SO happy ( and yourself also ), you are running to have a very sad relationship, and life in general.