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Date: November 1, 2022
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I'm sorry you're in pain. I feel you. I've been in similar situations, and…ugh, it really does hurt! But really all I can do is sympathize, and honestly, that's all anyone can really do for you. You're not going to find any help or answers for this here, or from anyone on the outside of this situation, including your friends. And you shouldn't ask or take any advice for the reason that no one can advise you on matters of the heart, such as this. This is too messy & complicated, and the best advice- to cut your losses and seek the love of someone who's not emotionally unavailable- isn't what you want to do or hear….and anyone who's been in your position should be able to understand why that's difficult to do.
Every story is different, but in general, “Love Hurts” a lot before finding one that's true. And the worst part is, you sense you're going to get really hurt before you actually do, and it's like the slowest train coming into view to hit you…and no, these are not good signs he's giving, and it seems like a trainwreck waiting to happen. But it doesn't matter if you know that it would be wiser to get off the track.
Sometimes we gotta be hit to give up on a person we love…because there's a chance, isn't there?
So I'm just sorry for the pain & the moments of risk and uncertainty. Regardless, that's rough, but I wish you the best of luck. And I hope that love or friendship wins in the end…do your part to make it so, because there's nothing worse than the regret of not giving things a chance, when it's such a mess that nothing feels right.
Then it moved beyond work, casual stuff, not dating. One day we decided it is getting too serious
You acknowledged that things between you two were “getting too serious”. Like, before she and her fiancé split, which is long ago. If you were just “two normal people spending time and doing things together”, then why would you have to had to change up the relationship dynamic and boundaries if you weren't doing anything that could have potentially lead to something more?
But, if you want me to overlook those time periods and pretend like it's not relevant, okay. It actually almost makes it worse. Because then, it just means that you're willing to blow up your relationship with your girlfriend of 4 years over a “3 month” situationship that might or might not go anywhere.
At the end of the day, it's your choice who you want to be with. If you're not happy with your partner, break up with her. But don't pretend that everything is peachy keen and string her alone while you sneak around with this other person building a new relationship.
You finally had the marriage conversation and you aren’t on the same page.
What happens next is up to you. If marriage is something that is essential to you, then leave now. Please, please, please don’t stick around hoping he’ll change his mind.
Don’t fall into the sunk cost fallacy mindset!
My advice is to let this man go and find himself to recover and possibly get deliverance too. Seriously, you need to let him go for your own sanity. No one who claims to be a recovering alcoholic goes to a bar. Alcoholics are called alcoholic and that's it. Why would you want to hear him out at his worst point when he's drunk? He says every woman leaves because he's a bad guy. Lady, that is definitely accurate to a T. He's a narcissist and wants the whole world to revolve around him and everyone else will always be in the wrong and not him. He has inner demons and only him can drive them away but whether he chooses to do so or not is not up to you. I feel you've taken enough emotional damage from this man to care any longer. Block him everywhere and move on for good.