As a stranger looking in, she sounds a bit homophobic. She's basically saying you don't present yourself straight enough for her friends/family, in her perspective. That will embarrass her since she'll have to answer questions or hear jokes if they're those kind of people. Sit down with her and seriously talk about it.
This comment isn’t helpful. You just regurgitated her words. She’s more than aware that her reaction might put him off trying in the future.
If your aim was to be hurtful and offer nothing toward a solution to the problem, you nailed it.
As a stranger looking in, she sounds a bit homophobic. She's basically saying you don't present yourself straight enough for her friends/family, in her perspective. That will embarrass her since she'll have to answer questions or hear jokes if they're those kind of people. Sit down with her and seriously talk about it.
I think he's an immature little bitch.