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Model from: za
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Birth Date: 1989-08-08
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Date: November 1, 2022
She saw me working out always alone and asked me if I wanted some company, I said sure why not. We give each other compliments to hype ourselves up, to give us more motivation. No she doesn’t flirt.
Not to mention the fact that she delivered that message in the most serial killer-esque way possible. Holy fuck that would’ve sent my ass into fight or flight.
I think it’s fine for you to want her to step out her role as your caregiver. But frankly, you need to genuinely reflect on your pride here and realize that she does deserve gratitude for prioritizing taking care of you over her own pursuits, throughout the past few months.
You talk about her wanting to have it both ways, but what about you? You seem to want her to accept you have genuine limits which affected your ability to contribute equally to household work, but you appear to be completely dismissive and ungrateful re: her taking on all your responsibilities as a result.
I’m not saying that those conditions are still in place. It’s quite possible you’re now capable of doing those tasks yourself again. But from everything you say, there was a significant chunk of time where you genuinely COULDN’T which means she HAD to. And you don’t seem willing to show any gratitude for her stepping up and doing that. It’s likely what led you guys to this very fight.
Just like you’re not aware of when she decided this was her role, isn’t it possible that she’s not aware of when you decided you suddenly don’t need her to do all this extra work on your behalf?
Saying that it’s no great sacrifice for her to do all the housework for months makes very little sense to me. Has she asked you to fawn all over her? Or could she maybe just want a little appreciation, just some acknowledgment that she has been working naked to keep your household going?
You haven’t really clarified the timeline. It strongly suggests to me that she did start making you feel bad about all the work she’s been doing AFTER it became clear to her that you’re very ungrateful for her efforts and dismissive of the fact that she HAD to take over for you, or let your household fall into shambles.
Seriously think on that, OP. Where would you be right now without her help over the past several months? Would someone else have had to move in to help you? Would you have to pay a caregiver? Would you have had to move back in with your family? How can you not be grateful that she spared you that?
I mean I appreciated this post and the sentiment, but isn’t cheating or not cheating about yourself and your personal values, and not whether or not you feel loved in a certain relationship? I mean sometimes relationships hit rough patches where we think our partners aren’t loving us the way we deserve or love them, I don’t cheat because I’m not a cheater, not because I happen to love them a lot and if I didn’t I would. Not a judgment of you btw.
Wow you got all that from a couple of paragraphs?