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Date: October 1, 2022
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Ok well that’s bizarre, but you’re in the huge minority here bro
I know you're right. I have come to this conclusion but then let myself be talked out if it. It's just so stupid because it's just WEED. It just feels so juvenile. I guess I really thought he would outgrow this habit but it's clear he's not going to unless he's made to.
And I loathed it. Horses for courses.
How do the convince you to leave this man child who refused to grow up and do better even for himself? Is this really how you want to spend your life? I hope these comments are a wake up call for you , you can do bad all by yourself. You don't need someone to drag you down when you have all the power to lift yourself up.
Not sure what to tell you man.
You were together for 5 years, then you broke up with her. That will create a rift in any connection. Sure, you two are functioning right now, but you're not the same anymore. Things have changed.
And because you broke up with her, and came back… do you think anyone would jump with joy to discuss in-between interests? In her mind, you were gone.
Play alternative events out in your mind:
You come back, you ask if she slept with anyone. Yes, I did. Game over. You come back, you ask if she dated anyone. Yes, but never slept together. Game over. You come back, she lies, your suspicion forces truth out of her. Game over.
It's kind of an L all across the board. Even if she was honest, you will still be exposed to that feeling of betrayal and the trust in the relationship is taking a hit no mater the direction.
And the only realistic way to survive this… is to recognize that it's maybe not your business. Whatever happened when we were off… I can't pay attention to it.
If you absolutely need to resolve your suspicion. Chances are you should probably just call the relationship off. If there is more to it, you're not going to like it and everything is going to get worse for you over time.
What you should be focusing on is how compatible to two really are.
You're are still unlabeled and actively trying to win the other over again. As far as your concerned, you're relationship is practically square one, its been reset.
You stated numerous times:
I am a very anxious person and have an anxious attachment style.
And she said:
She claims sometimes she is overwhelmed by me
That is good information for her to confess and healthy for improving the relationship.
The way you perceive yourself, is going to be different than the way she perceives you. So, when she says something like that, you don't need to defend your actions. You listen and accept it.
If you're not capable of:
listening to her say – I need this from you accepting it executing it
Maybe you two have jumped the gun and are rushing into this again.
You're clearly going though mental gymnastics about everything. That might be an indication that this is the wrong time to make a second attempt at the relationship.
I did find it weird that he never offered to that so I could go see them.. and it very well could’ve been :/