Stop asking his permission to put yourself first. You're unhappy and don't want to move. So don't. Don't leave room for him to sweet talk you. This isn't a discussion, there is nothing to negotiate. You tell him you've decided that you won't be moving, and you two need to spend some time apart and see how that goes and proceed from there.
Just one no is all it takes to end a relationship. He is clearly unhappy but change is scary, and he has you working your ass off for him already so why give that up? What do YOU get out of this relationship? You could be happier on your own too.
This is going to sound strange but neither really. She's up to hang out with me tho.
Girl, he definitely went to the bathroom to clear his phone of every single incriminating thing that he does while he’s away for work.
He is lying to you and straight up insinuating that you are stupid.
Now he has no reason to tell the truth, because he has deleted everything.
Good luck.
Stop asking his permission to put yourself first. You're unhappy and don't want to move. So don't. Don't leave room for him to sweet talk you. This isn't a discussion, there is nothing to negotiate. You tell him you've decided that you won't be moving, and you two need to spend some time apart and see how that goes and proceed from there.
Just one no is all it takes to end a relationship. He is clearly unhappy but change is scary, and he has you working your ass off for him already so why give that up? What do YOU get out of this relationship? You could be happier on your own too.