Whether you tell your husband or not, you need to 100% cut this guy off. And I don’t mean “just be friends”. It has to be no contact, zero interaction – period. Do what it takes to achieve this. And learn from this. It wasn’t harmless, not before the kiss, not before he touched you. Not when it was “just flirting”. Respect your husband or end your marriage.
I personally always hated mixing work with anything else, but in that case she would have been better off just telling you that. There are different worlds, and people at work have inside things that others don't understand. I feel like it would have been far better to not invite you at all and tell you why. Of course, this is just me and I'm not saying this is why she did this, just a possibility.
Better not go into a dressing room to try on clothes or a locker room at the gym either. WTF?
Whether you tell your husband or not, you need to 100% cut this guy off. And I don’t mean “just be friends”. It has to be no contact, zero interaction – period. Do what it takes to achieve this. And learn from this. It wasn’t harmless, not before the kiss, not before he touched you. Not when it was “just flirting”. Respect your husband or end your marriage.
I personally always hated mixing work with anything else, but in that case she would have been better off just telling you that. There are different worlds, and people at work have inside things that others don't understand. I feel like it would have been far better to not invite you at all and tell you why. Of course, this is just me and I'm not saying this is why she did this, just a possibility.
Eww that's not good