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Don't do it.
You act more hostile than work colleagues towards eachother and you want to get married? Uhh.. It's not the best idea?
Literally nothing seems off about that. I think that you are so afraid of being hurt that you need to invent reasons to avoid relationships as some sort of pathological self-protection.
It's only embarrassing if you're embarrassed.
Please please don’t feel pressured to do anything but what your gut is telling you. You can run far away in a way. You are not tied down and you have the choice. You know what’s best for you and do not let others excitement make you feel selfish.
OP please grab all the evidence you can ahead of this inevitable divorce. She’s already told you her plan to take your daughter and leave.
You get in the car you are risking your life. Period point blank. Is driving instead of him an option? Either way considering your past experience with your aunts death that your even entertaining any of it is kind of surprising.
Haha i really like that actually
You HAVE been choosing your wife over your child the entire time you’ve stayed KNOWING she has been abusing her. The fact that you are even considering getting back with her after the hell she has put your daughter through says you are still choosing her. Why the hell would you continue to put your daughter and other children through this. If you want to get back with her, send your daughter to her mother so she can at least be safe.
Sorry son, she is already cheating on you. They ask for open relationship to cheat easier.
Suddenly ask her who is she cheating with?! You can tell with her facial expression!
Never ever give in to open relationship. Dump her when you find out who she is cheating with.
Best of luck ?
Speak with him. In my my opinion it is easy to make guys happy!
What makes guys extra happy is if they can make yoy happy. Talk, experiment and take things slow – it is a wonderful journey you are undertaking. Suggest mutual massage, kisses, oral experimentation for both and of cause a very careful cotious . Remember like everything else it takes time to master what is important is to go slow and love each other.
It is crazy to me that OP and that the other person cannot understand the simple thing you are trying to say. That while they are both adults and her parents cannot force her to do anything her shelter, food, and maybe education I am not sure are all being provided by her parents. If she doesn’t like the rules she is more than welcome to not follow them but at the risk of losing everything her parents provide for her as a benefit of abiding by the rules no matter how ridiculous they are.
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So what would you consider to be a compromise in this situation? I literally can't think of anything except for Cathy to give up her own dreams completely. In the situations I suggested, Mark still gets to fix up the house and if they rent it out, there is still an opportunity down the road to move in there in the future, like when his parents get older and need more assistance.
I suppose compromise might not be the best fit for this situation, I don't think either of them should have to completely sacrifice anything, my point is i think they can find a happy medium that checks off their main reasons for having their dreams. Like if Mark is determined to have a house out in the country because he likes not having neighbors, but Cathy always wanted a house in town because she likes walking everywhere, they can find a house that is surrounded by open country but is still close to town.
It's unfair that he alone has made the decision of what their life is going to look like. The location of a house is a huge factor in determining their lifestyle. If they were married, this would have been something they discussed together, as it affects both of them. It determines what school district the kids can go to. Living next to his parent's means that they will be the default babysitter. It determines what kind of cars they need. How much time will be spent on maintaining the property.
Cathy does very well for herself financially and would be more than happy to contribute to their future house. It might be different if Mark is expecting to be the sole provider. But a couple is a team.
Ugh no. What you need is a restraining order and to make a professional complaint to his professional body about taking ownership of your vehicle.
Unwind everything with him and get him out of your life. He is unhinged.
Kind of feel like you hurried the lead, he got his then proceeded to roll over and go to sleep, yeah NO.
If his wife was your 17yo daughter, would you feel like this is no big deal?
Sometimes people don’t want to hear honesty or good advice because they aren’t ready or capable of following through with it.
Your advice was excellent. She’s never had to be fully independent financially or emotionally, and she’s just looking to jump to a new situation where she still doesn’t have to do it.
Don’t think the readiness or capability is there yet. Hopefully it develops for her one day.
If she’s asexual and you’re not, then what you have is a friendship, not a relationship.
If you only want a hook up, my advice is buy yourself a decent toy. Seriously. This person doesn't give a rats about your pleasure, so you're probably looking at minimal foreplay, followed by a quick few pumps, and he's out the door. You will get more out of a toy. I mean, it's your choice, but don't go into this expecting amazing sex.
If you want to find a fwb relationship, there are plenty of websites out there that cater to that. But make sure the person you set this up with actually likes giving pleasure. Anyone who thinks the highest pleasure a woman can feel is having a dick inside her knows nothing about sex or female pleasure. That's your first red flag. Find someone who loves to eat you, not someone who will do it only if they're really forced to.
You acknowledge yourself that you have a destructive pattern of being overly-focused on romantic prospects, only to grow bored with them once you've achieved your goal. That's not productive for you and probably hurtful for them.
A therapist could help you discover the root of this behavior and help you to learn a healthier way of relating to romantic prospects and discover new patterns to on-line by.
The thing is my boyfriend doesn't give a damn about his kid (unfortunately) and he only speaks of him as a “duty” or a “liability”, and said repeatedly that if he could've let him on-line with the “crazy bitch” (kid's mother) he would've. He doesn't know him and hasn't paid any attention to him in the last 10 years. But he also, argues that if thee kid is to on-line with us, better it be the best experience possible. If I decide to forcefully get him to change his mind, he might and most probably will choose me. I don't wan't him to resent me for it though, and neither do I want the kid to end up with his mother if she is anything close to what he described.
Yes. I'm exploring a possibility here, not stating a fact.
OP while it’s been a few days for you, he probably made his decision to end the relationship awhile back so he’s been emotionally detaching for longer. He also initiated the breakup, and usually that side of the relationship bounces back quicker.
I don't think somebody crying over an ex is ready to be in a relationship either lol
Have you tried women’s shelters or domestic violence groups? Any research to see what shelters provide help to women without familial help or transportation? He’s violent to the dog it won’t be long till he transfers that violence to you or your child
You break up. Look, you're too young to be living in this kind of drama when a relationship should be your escape of the drama in your life, not the source of it.
You still have a lot to know, he can't be the center of your world, you should be the center of your world.
Picture a life together with someone who you can't trust anymore. This is not the way to on-line your 20's. So love yourself here, and break up with the guy.
Please let his own parents know what he did. Stop by their house with a box full of his belongings and when they ask why, tell them. They raised him to be like this, they can see what this resulted in. If they raised him better than this? Then he gets to realize how badly he disappointed them. AT LEAST file a report, please. Take a friend with you. Get yourself good and worked up and mad first to help get past the hurt. Text him to ask him why he did this, tell him you KNOW it was on purpose, you just want to know why he took an intimate video of you without your consent and put it on social media…which means you can decide again in a few weeks with proof of his behavior. And send that to his parents, too. Letting his family and if possible friends know what sort of person he REALLY is, is a gift to them and to yourself. Finally, do remember that if he has NO consequences besides losing someone he didn't really care about to start with…he's going to do it to additional future victims. If you need a small final push, that thought might help. Please, if it's not the law, DO give him consequences by letting his family know. And the next person he tries this with, they can warn and will hopefully believe because they KNOW he did it to you 🙁
Three and eight years old…
Thank you! Perhaps there is some way of reaching some compromise…
I think for now I'll just commit to being more accepting and see if this feeling passes. But I really appreciate your sensitive comment!
Therapists recommend zero contact with Exs. They undermine new relationships.
There's plenty of solid peer reviewed research to support zero contact.
Look it up yourself on goggle scholar.
The frequent texting, the silly dog excuse for meeting face to face, and her reluctance to chose you over him is evidence that her emotional bond with him is greater than with you.
And withholding their meet up/lying is evidence that she's protecting that emotional bond with him.
If you have to issue an ultimatum, you already lost her. Ultimatums don't work long term.
She's 38yo. She's not going to change
She wasn't at home actually. She landed up coming back home early and I had already smoked. She got the smell and I came clean to give you more context. I don't even smoke in my own house in front of her and would never do that.
She had wisdom teeth out, not cancer surgery. She needs to be more reasonable here.
I don’t think you have to say anything. Love can also be acts of service. Just treat him good, do something special once in a wile like a nice dinner or fave candy. Boys like flowers too. And don’t say anything. Hold him close and on-line on him. He did this act of service for you because he loves you!!! Maybe this moment and his protection can help you find some peace in this trauma. I’m sure it’ll come up naturally one day anyways.
I’m gonna be brutally honest here.
Regardless when she made the video, I wouldn’t date a person who is stupid enough to make a sex tape of herself and then upload it to any cloud storage service in this day and age. After all these hacks and leaks…
I’m not stuck on it, but when someone’s entire Reddit history is giving legal advice to people in the US when they’re in Australia, I do think it’s worth mentioning. It’s a throwaway account with absolutely awful grammar, giving legal advice to people when they don’t even on-line here.
Do I think it would be great to see OP drag this out until he dies, to screw over the affair partner who is likely biding her time, looking for a payday? Yes. Do I think she should, if her attorney advises against it? Of course not. As far as medical debt is concerned – that typically doesn’t become the responsibility of the surviving spouse, so that point is likely moot. The general consensus on this post seems to be that people would love for OP to come out of this a winner, but to also be smart and let a good attorney figure out how to make that happen.
Same! Though for me it was obvious when this was happening because it changed dates on extremely old photos and grouped them all together because my albums are sorted by dates so I have this bunch of extremely old photos mixed in with newer ones whenever I move things to cloud.
You need to recognize that when a 40m takes up with a 22f it's not because he expects her to have a full life outside of him and to have other demands on her time. Older guys target young women because they assume them to be too naive to recognize the controlling nature of the relationship. The only way to keep this guy happy would have been to sublimate yourself so that all your time/energy is devoted to him. You've actually dodged a bullet here, although you may not realize it for another three or four years.
Why are you so upset by OPs living situation? Are you okay?
She literally told him to take a nap. He had a long day at work. If the roles were reversed and she didn't want to have sex people would be going off on him. It's the same.
Even if it is not about manipulating, someone who is 35 dating 20yo is probably not very mature. What happens when she gets more life experience, gets mire mature and has certain level of expectations on the partner, but he stays the same? That is just a recipe for trouble.
He doesn't owe you anything. You're not dating.
And if he's also interacting with them normally, on normal posts, that's just called “having female friends like a well-adjusted guy”.
You're trolling, right? That's better than the alternative here.
If you respond it can be considered the same as him responding. Report her to the police and parole officer. They can deal with her, and they have it on record she is instigating things. Report and document every contact she makes. CYOA.
Seriously? My “tone” is a fucking problem? You clearly dont fuck know what “tone” is
It can be a liver enzyme problem without being outright liver failure. But it kind of sounds serious.
I dont know thats what he tells me. I always struggle with romantic interactions so i dont know but i guess he was probably charming and fun with women
But what about the fact that she offered us dating and I was the one who rejected it? And all the years of true genuine friendship?
Yea I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting something. I’ve just never even thought of such a thing.
She needs to know that you are someone that can’t handle your alcohol because you cheat and finger strippers because you can’t say no.
I agree but Ehhhh this part of your comment rubs me the wrong way. “Can’t handle alcohol… can’t say no…” sounds very gross and exactly the language people use about rape victims.
I am not saying OP is a victim or not, just the language you use is gross.
Ty.
Reddit should keep me accountable.
How should I proceed
Run as far and as fast as you can. This man has no concept of boundaries or consent. You said no. He said maybe. Those aren't the same thing.