You’re willing to give him an open relationship because you’re either:
Insecure that if you don’t he’ll cheat on you anyways but it’ll be worse since it’s behind your back.
Or
You’re extremely immature, now I’m not saying that all problem who have open relationships are immature however, you do not want the same for yourself so therefore are settling for less in the relationship to please him, which is extremely immature on the premise that a relationship should go both ways.
And who the hell are you to “teach” your bf (ex-bf, I hope) a lesson about anything? Who made you lord god of all opinions in the universe?
Grow up.
seriously. Vday such a yardstick for a relationship. if she's not spending the day with you, you're the sidepiece.
Step 1, stop acting like the victim, you are not. Its gross how you treated this woman that your supposedly love.
You’re willing to give him an open relationship because you’re either:
Insecure that if you don’t he’ll cheat on you anyways but it’ll be worse since it’s behind your back.
Or
You’re extremely immature, now I’m not saying that all problem who have open relationships are immature however, you do not want the same for yourself so therefore are settling for less in the relationship to please him, which is extremely immature on the premise that a relationship should go both ways.