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One wants me to leave, another understands and loves him but no longer wants to associate with him because she doesn’t think he’s as healed as he needs to be
Are you jealous and possessive? Will you be okay if she says yes/no? Have you thought it through? All the possible scenarios – even the most detrimental ones?
If you're just perceived as jealous but you're not, and you would be okay sleeping with her after, knowing she has moaned on other guys' dick, then bring it up how you'd normally bring up any kink.
Open up a conversation about sex and kinks, then slowly lead into the question but keep it open and explain that she in NO way has to agree. Who knows, maybe she's into it, maybe she's not.
If she's cheating, why do you want to keep her?
He watched it with his ex because he loves the show and wanted to share it with a person he loved to that time. He wants to share it with a person he loves now.
That is all you need to understand and believe.
Yes, we've talked about it a ton. We're pretty good about communication, there's just some areas like this one that no amount of talking has helped.
Hmm? A guy doesn’t normally spend that much money on another unless it’s a sister, mom, some sort of beloved relative without other intentions. So you say your girl works full time? Does that mean you only work P/T? Your first sentence said you split up, there is no claim after that. It’s not cheating. Maybe you need to take a good look at yourself and the things you do or don’t do in a relationship if you want to be in a long term relationship with someone.
Without knowing the specifics of why she is your ex I'd say don't do it – it'll likely end in tears.
I can understand being a little bummed but it's really her choice to make. You can't control her. Did you get your first tattoo with her? If not, then why do you care so much about this? It really is inconsequential.
Just because you felt hurt doesn't mean she needed to change her plans. I know you don't want to be controlling but it would be controlling if you tried to guilt her about this.
Try to get over it. It's not a big deal that she wanted to get her first tattoo with her friends. It actually seems like a really healthy choice for someone her age. She should be more focused on friendships and not relationships right now. Be happy for her.
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Lol just leave your current boyfriend so he can go find someone who wants to be with him. You have already decide in your own mind that this is a decision so might as well let your current boyfriend go so you can go back to your ex and he can go find someone that won’t waste his time love and energy.
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1st. You will not automatically lose your children. You need to get a lawyer asap- one who specializes in family law/divorce/child custody proceedings. Secondly, why the FUCK would you even consider staying with a woman who cheated on you just out of convenience? Tell her she has 30 days to make new living arrangements for herself and you'll both be working out a legally recognized custody arrangement in the meantime.
Unsightly meat ? I lied about whether I had an orgasm , I just wonder if I had said I didn’t , he’d be hurt right ?
I don’t even think you’re for real. Probably a mod using comments to increase engagement. The way you comment on every other comment is manic.
Me too. Thanks.
I hope OP reads this because there’s no way he actually wants that gun to go hunting with his kids.
In any event he sounds like a real winning ya got there.
Sorry you had to go through this…thank you for sharing!!
It is obviously up to her to terminate the pregnancy or not, but that wasn't the question she asked. She wanted to know if should tell him because part of her thinks he deserves to know and she would feel guilty if she didn't tell him.
It is possible to tell him about the pregnancy that he took part in creating and she terminated, simply by informing him in a one-way communication after the fact.
I mean… that’s who she is. Is that what you want in your life?
You need to know that you can’t and shouldn’t change her. But you also should know that if this is a dealbreaker for you, it’s ok to admit that and go from there. You can’t manipulate her into changing, but you can end the relationship and find someone more compatible. Again, if that is important to you. And from your post, it sounds like it is.
She’s absolutely right
Bruh he was 17 not fuckin 7
I get that.
All I want to say is I've spoken to a couple friends who have done the same things to their SO's and they've had no problem with it. A lot of people would have no problem with it. But knowing her past, I understand why she does. It happened once, she set that boundary and it happened again.
The important part is the broken trust by doing that the 2nd time.
Damn dude this sounds like one of two things to me, either you're overthinking this thing into the fucking stratosphere or there is at the minimum a slight hope for a romantic progression. I realize you said specifically you DO NOT have a romantic interest but if this had been a random guy you met at a convention would you be overthinking it like this or would you just hit him up and say “Hey dude we're both at this convention I'm by the ….. come say hi!”
Ugh yeah Unicorn hunters ?
Dude, I understand. Do you want to be the guy who bends over backwards and has nothing to show for it? If you’re OK with that, I’ll stop commenting. But if your fed up, traumatized and exhausted don’t you think something needs to change? And it sounds like it needed to change a long time ago…for instance when your ex said she was taking your kids 300 miles away from you! WTF!
We date people to get to know them better and learn how we work together as a couple. It's not a shocking or abnormal outcome when what you learn is you're not compatible in the long run.
You can keep hanging around in a miserable relationship because you used to be happy, or you can actually use what you've learned over the last several months to make a decision going forward.
Move out and leave her alone. You started to threaten that you'd leave and that “worked at first”? What a manipulative, fucked up thing to do. You think she brushes off the things you say when angry? No, she remembers and they probably play on a loop in her head.
You have hurt her so badly with this shit. This has nothing to do with your alcoholism and everything to do with the fact that you don't treat her well. Just because you are sober now, doesn't mean you get a pass on the rest of your behaviour. You need therapy. You don't deserve her.
Do you really want to marry a porn, possibly underage porn addict?
Because that's who you're marrying. That's what you're going to deal with for the rest of your life.
And for the record, I'm no prude. My spouse watches porn sometimes. I watch porn sometimes. We even watch porn together occasionally. But neither of us has a curated collection of porn and certainly not porn that is simulating illegal acts.
Why not take your mom
I think you’re being awful to this man
Why do people stay with idiots like that and have children with them?
Fake post. Sets up an obvious scenario, and we are to believe the OP is so clueless that she can't see he's hooking up with his ex.
Too obvious. Lame.
Your partner is staying in a relationship with someone she thinks is a pedophile? That's odd.
I dunno, man. I understand her worrying maybe about financial security, but not shitting on your dreams and saying she'd leave you. You could have come up with a game plan; work as you are and save as much as you can to be able to support the household for, eg, 2yrs without a job, and then use those 2yrs to make a go of it. If it succeeds, yay. If it doesn't, you go back to the 9 to 5, but knowing that you gave it your best shot. What ifs and unfulfilled dreams can be a poison to the soul.
I don't know how to get him to forgive me
Did you at least try apologizing in a genuine and meaningful way? Do you even believe you did anything wrong here to be forgiven, or are you actually just wanting him to “get over it” without you having to admit any fault?
Yeah, and I worked there a bit longer than her.
What kind of behaviours do you think is okay to call out and how would you confront her?
The things that annoy me are speaking over me while I’m talking to customers, staring at me while I work, grabbing things out of my hands, scolding for not doing things her way, pointing out “issues” in my work, being passive aggressive, and bossing us around while she isn’t doing anything.
It sounds like you don't like the way this relationship makes you feel.
He needs to go to the doctor ASAP, could be serious
I hope you find a person you can trust in your next relationship. So you don't have to go through their phone. I've been with my partner for nearly 10 yrs, and I've never gone through his phone. Trust is an amazing confidence booster, for sure.
While GP are great they normally are not the right professional to prescribe psych meds. He may be on the incorrect one for his needs. He should really consider a mental health evaluation for correctly assessing his needs and what meds he should be on. He should also consider individual counseling. There has to be a block somewhere that causing the lack of intimacy, a fear, anxiety that he needs to work through. Encourage him to go to therapy.
You are a wonderful person to be patience with him. Remember him not being responsive to you is not you at all, it is his issue and hopefully you both can work together to find a solution.
I wish you luck and send you my support, he is truly lucky to have such a great person.
I agree with the majority of the comments here but I’d also want to inquire if your wife has had anybody in her ear about ur assistant? Like friends or family that may know about the promotion and are sowing doubts in her mind. It’s very hot to soothe suspicions when they’re being fed by third parties
You can help her by not taking her shit. Tell her if she ever talks to you like that you'll leave. See how quickly she develops self control.
I'm fine with the no exes boundary, or something like no 1 on 1 meetings with exes, but I also know people who've remained friends with exes for years without issues. That's a personal preference and might be a deal breaker for her, and that's fair. It doesn't make either of you wrong, just incompatible.
What does worry me is the manipulative behavior you described with the “if you loved me” narrative.
I'm fine with the no exes boundary, or something like no 1 on 1 meetings with exes, but I also know people who've remained friends with exes for years without issues. That's a personal preference and might be a deal breaker for her, and that's fair. It doesn't make either of you wrong, just incompatible.
What does worry me is the manipulative behavior you described with the “if you loved me” narrative.
Leave him asap, you don’t want to be a part of their weird relationship
Oh jeez your edits are just making it worse. Please wake up
Woohoo!
Don't book marriage counciling book a divorce lawyer Jesus.. there no fixing this, he cheated whether he stuck it in her or not.. and now you and your family are in trouble becoming of his stupid arse..
Divorce him and don't let no sleezy man disrespectful you, because now everyone involved as they have a list of family names this isn't something that holding hands in counciling can fix