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Date: November 23, 2022
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There are none so blind as those that will not see.
Do not be surprised when you ask for advice, fail to take heed of it and find out it is correct. You are being phased out. She may be back if the other guy isnt any better.
The only funny thing about the joke is the downvotes
If I were you, I'd send a certified letter, return receipt required. That's your proof that he got the message.
You might not think he's stalkerish now, but he does seem to have a preoccupation with you. Be very clear about your boundaries.
Some people don't view a nonresponse as a rejection. Be very clear that you don't want any contact or communication from him.
I know its an overused meme but, just gonna drome the gender-swapped post below, see how you would feel reading it.
I had my daughter at the age of 21 years old. Her mother passed away two years later. So it was me and my daughter against the world. When it came to my dating life, I haven't been so lucky. I did have some random hook-ups here and there and very short-term relationships throughout my daughter's childhood. In the beginning of my daughter's senior year, she brought a friend home. Let's call her Emma. She was basically at our house every other weekend. I was really happy because my daughter doesn't have a lot of friends. She usually keeps to herself. I really liked Emma as a person. She was a real sweet woman. We had have nice, short conversations whenever she was at our place. We exchanged number just in case. She would start sending me messages and jokes. I would respond back. My daughter didn't mind at all. After 4 months of coming to our house, Emma texts me she wants to meet up for coffee out of nowhere. I texted her if it was something urgent or about my daughter. She responded by saying it's something important. I was curious, so I decided to meet up with her. When I met up with her, she looked very nervous. I asked her what was the meeting about. She told me I can't tell my daughter about it. She then confessed to me that she was developing feelings for me. I was taken aback by this. I told her that while I was flattered, I had to think about my daughter. She pleaded with me to just give her a chance. It was so long that I found somebody interested in me like that. Emma was already 18 when she was introduced to me and she was a very beautiful woman. I said yes, but with the condition that it would be only casual dating and my daughter doesn't have to know about it. We met up the next week at her place. I told my daughter I was going out with my friends. After an hour into the date, we slept with each other. Then we promised to meet up in the close future. Our meetups became very frequents, and as such, our relationship grew stronger. I was beginning to fall in love with Emma. We learned more about each other. Emma was becoming my main source of joy. I wanted the weekend to start early just to be with Emma. It was hard for me to pay attention to anything else in my life. Looking back, it seems that my relationship with Emma had a negative effect on the relationship with my daughter. I had to come up with different excuses on why I wasn't around. I missed out on her soccer games. I think I really messed up when I missed her birthday dinner because I was with Emma. I told her that work held me up.
I can't quite imagine how the dude's parents feel, but the ages are pretty messed up, the “Max” most likely had no experience in relationships, as shown by him proposing so damn fast, and his immaturity with revealing to your son your relationship (you say it was an accident, I would say that there is no way in hell someone writes a full-on message and sends it without noticing which chat they are on).
You're for all intents and purposes a cradle robber and I hope your relationship with your new husband doesn't make it so your daughter follows your footsteps and marries somehow double her age just out of high school.
As for advice, do not attempt to amend your relationship, make no requests of your son, and listen to what he has to say or asks.
You will most likely not be able to fix the relationship, but you can give it some level of closure and that is better than nothing.
Also, recommend couples therapy and individual therapy for you to maybe figure out what led you to make such choices, and at least make the relationship you do have as healthy as possible.
That’s a fair compromise! Maybe you’ll be able to be more involved with your grandkids!