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Date: November 24, 2022
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You’re embarrassed, but his cheating had nothing to do with you. Nothing to do with you. The break up isn’t your fault and it’s not your fault that he’s like this.
Please go see your gyn and get tested for STIs. I’d hope this is the only other person and they were using protections, but we don’t know that for sure and we know he’s a liar.
Back to what to do. You can tell people. You have a right to talk about your experiences in the relationship. One of your cousins maybe? Talking things through will help you heal. And in healing, you will find yourself more ready to move on.
I wouldn’t confront him. You know the story, you know what he did. There’s no real satisfaction to come from another conversation with him. I’m sorry.
Retired psychologist here. Your gf is struggling and no amount of talking to her is going to change her behavior. She needs professional help. It’s scary for everyone when they start but it’s worse to let everything go on as it is.
I think you could use your gf’s attachment to you to get her to a therapist’s office, or in front of a screen for a virtual appointment. It sounds like you are in a position to convince her, and you can even start the session with her if she’s that scared. Don’t pay attention to the weirdness. It’s part of why she need to go in the first place.
However, do not sacrifice yourself in this situation. When she hurts you then you need to immediately shut down her behavior. Tell her No, Get up, walk away, and leave. No hesitation. You need to be assertive with her, meaning firm, and once you say you’re going to leave, you do it. You don’t stop for any crying or manipulation, you go. You may need to raise your voice when you tell her to stop hurting you. Every time it happens you need to leave the area immediately. Please be aware also that her behavior could potentially escalate at any time to a dangerous level. Be ready.
Yeah stop doing all that. Start doing what makes you look and feel the best for you. For example the facial hair, shave it because as you state you can’t get the look you want anyway and she doesn’t like it either. You might be able to bulk up with diet and weight lifting but that’s about it. Besides people can be attracted to different types of people for different reasons. Just be the best you.
Birth control pills AND condoms? She probably lyin lol
So a 36yo man started a relationship with a 18yo. Nope, absolutely not!
Also what the heck do you mean he’s never done anything manipulative? He threatened to sue you and take your child, because he allegedly didn’t want you to have it? So he doesn’t really want the kid, but will threaten taking it. Wtaf? Why for the love of god are you with him? I am under the impression now one of two things happened, since you make no mention of currently having a child with him… 1 you had a miscarriage (if so I am sorry for your loss), so he took you back Or 2 you had the abortion to please him, so, he took you back.
Why you’d want to go back is beyond me. There is apparently more than one reason he is not with someone older. Who cares if his mom likes you, I’d run, block and go NC!
Soooo I hate to ask, but where does he think babies come from? I would be curious.
I mean how much biology doesn't he understand?
He is disgusted that women also need to go to the toliet?
Has he never been to a farm or seen a live! birth? Because I swear that is what children's farm visits to see the lambs are about. Ohh saying that I have a youtube channel with many sheep having babies you could watch?? No?? He would be disgusted also???
Ah well. I tried.
Good luck, I think you are going to need it.
Can you call the friend he’s with?
Just because she still cares for him, it doesn’t mean that she has active feelings. And just because a small, tiny part of her will always love him, it doesn’t mean that she is in love with him, that she loves you any less, or that you are her second choice.
She has assured that you are not her second choice. Beyond admitting that she still cares in a small way for someone who once meant a great deal to her, has she given you any reason to doubt how you feel?
Oh sick, so you know they don’t have only 1 locker room? ?? where do guest teams go? The cupboard?
That’s a very innocent way to do this, but as someone whose mid 20s, you don’t do that unless you hope it’s reciprocated or to let them know you’re another option.
Dude lol, you’re sending thirst traps (this is what gym bod photos are, I don’t care who you’re trying to fool) with another woman and are shocked your wife has a problem with it?
This is a massive amount of red flags ?
Well you threw around marriage as if it was easy so literary just grow tf up or stop complaining about a problem you can solve. Are you 30 or still a teenager? Grow. Up.
Yo did he really say that word for word? That’s insane. Glad you left, there are guys out there that would kill for a girl with a higher libido just like there are girls that hate when guys have a higher libido than them. Just gotta work on yourself til you love yourself enough to be patient in finding that person you’re compatible with so that you don’t end up in a similar situation again
That's not very reasonable though, they should just be understanding of people that can't make it for any reason.
Abort mission
I wish you luck.
These comments are so unnecessarily vicious. Probably mostly from dudes who on-line on cheese puffs in their mom’s basement.
Was your family’s behavior uncool? Yes. Should you have intervened? Absolutely! But, unless there’s some bombshell event you’re not sharing with us, your boyfriend is definitely overreacting. He’s not dating them he’s dating you.
Either he’s been unhappy and he was looking for a reason to leave, or he’s blowing this out of proportion. Apologize to him and let him know it’ll be different in the future. If he can’t handle one bump in the road, the relationship was doomed anyway.
I'm a woman lol? And it seems like you missed my point, it's not the fucking that's attractive, I'm saying just physical traits aren't enough to trap women. Most of the ones I know at least.
How do you think you would have reacted had you known at the time?
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