I tell her that I forgive her because all this time she has been an amazing wife and mother.
Maybe mother, but she hasn't been a good wife. She had it in her to lie to you, for years. She can lie to you so easily, can she lie to your children? The only thing you can trust about her is she cares about herself.
I don't think it's much of a blessing, I wouldn't have minded to have a baby if I was already graduated university as that ensures a better job. Plus my family expects a lot from me in the future as I'm the oldest child in my family and basically the most responsible one in the whole extended family. I'm willing to marry her if things go south for the sake of the child. But me being still young myself is just making things hot. I'm the type of person who usually calculates everything to the seconds, so something unexpected like this is frustrating. The thing is society expects us to have children once we are married but if you are an immigrant who just became an adult and in your freshman year in university and doing minimum wage jobs to earn basic living expenses, it infinitely harder to cope with a baby while being a bachelor and being the the sole responsible for bringing shame to the family
19 year olds ?
I tell her that I forgive her because all this time she has been an amazing wife and mother.
Maybe mother, but she hasn't been a good wife. She had it in her to lie to you, for years. She can lie to you so easily, can she lie to your children? The only thing you can trust about her is she cares about herself.
I don't think it's much of a blessing, I wouldn't have minded to have a baby if I was already graduated university as that ensures a better job. Plus my family expects a lot from me in the future as I'm the oldest child in my family and basically the most responsible one in the whole extended family. I'm willing to marry her if things go south for the sake of the child. But me being still young myself is just making things hot. I'm the type of person who usually calculates everything to the seconds, so something unexpected like this is frustrating. The thing is society expects us to have children once we are married but if you are an immigrant who just became an adult and in your freshman year in university and doing minimum wage jobs to earn basic living expenses, it infinitely harder to cope with a baby while being a bachelor and being the the sole responsible for bringing shame to the family
Congratulations! I'm also worried about having to go through talking phases with people again though as I hate early stage relationships.