This! Go out without him. Buy a nice dinner for yourself. Maybe meet friends and go out with them but do not include him. Expect him to start paying his share. Do not pay for his activities at all. If he likes them enough he will have the money for them. His priorities will show as they do now. You aren't a priority.
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This! Go out without him. Buy a nice dinner for yourself. Maybe meet friends and go out with them but do not include him. Expect him to start paying his share. Do not pay for his activities at all. If he likes them enough he will have the money for them. His priorities will show as they do now. You aren't a priority.
Then thats not a thruple, thats a threesome. A thruple is a 3 way relationship.