I feel like you are arguing a question that wasn't asked. Everything you said is technically true but you completely flew past all of her sus non-co-parenting behavior.
Spending new years eve with your ex and not your boyfriend is not co-parenting. 1-2 hour secret FaceTimes in the basement isn't co-parenting. OP is getting played. There is nuance here that matters.
Those would for sure be deal breakers for me. It's sad that you all are having these issues AND that she's pregnant so early in the relationship. You two are still learning one another. If you're really wanting to try to work things out give couples counseling a go but other than that your gf is going to continue to suck you dry. Well wishes.
I feel like you are arguing a question that wasn't asked. Everything you said is technically true but you completely flew past all of her sus non-co-parenting behavior.
Spending new years eve with your ex and not your boyfriend is not co-parenting. 1-2 hour secret FaceTimes in the basement isn't co-parenting. OP is getting played. There is nuance here that matters.
Those would for sure be deal breakers for me. It's sad that you all are having these issues AND that she's pregnant so early in the relationship. You two are still learning one another. If you're really wanting to try to work things out give couples counseling a go but other than that your gf is going to continue to suck you dry. Well wishes.