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Why didn't you talk to your wife about this before you went?
I just looked at your profile and you are in a narcissistic help group…that's awesome…keep working on yourself and the right person will come along at the right time
Look, you can't see this right now but the difference in maturity and life experiences a person has at 18 and 22 are so, so different. At 18 I was just graduating high school and still willing to take a tremendous amount of bullshit from my HS boyfriend. At 22 I was focused on jump-starting my career after working really hard throughout my undergrad and applying to grad programs in a different continent. I'm 28 and I've kept up the same rate of change such that…I'm a completely different person now than I was even at 23. What I'm saying is, you're a legal adult but there's functionally not a lot of difference between you and a high schooler. There's a lot of difference between you and your 22 yo boyfriend.
You are supposed to grow right now and having an older person as your romantic partner really impedes your growth. You will find yourself either molding yourself to this guy or growing apart anyway and going through a lot of heartbreak. This is not a good idea. The probability of a good outcome here is very low.
To address your final point, you have a choice. There's lots of other things you can do in an LDR. You can try spicy texting without pictures or videos. You can have phone calls and chat. You can have videocalls that don't allow recording without permission. There are a lot of options that don't leave a trail bc this is something you have anxiety about. If he doesn't agree with those other ways to get off, then he's not the right person anyway. Your partner should care about making you feel safe and comfortable.
Finally, I pointed out risk tolerance bc that is really the crux of the issue. You're a teenager who had to go to the psych ward bc an ex leaked your nudes through the high school. You can't handle it and that's perfectly normal, esp. given your conservative background. You can't compare your situation to mine. My risk tolerance is a lot higher. I am mentally divorced from the idea that nudity is inherently sexual; I roam topless in the summer (my roommate is cool with it), I've been an artist's model, I go to saunas, hot springs, and naked beaches. If someone leaked my nudes I'd have pretty minimal reaction to it after the initial shock. I'd probably just be like, “dang I was really nude huh, pretty hot to keep that 20 yo bod isn't it”. And move on. But that kind of nonchalance only comes with age and experience, which you don't have.
If you can't handle that, then you can't be sending nudes.
This is a really good answer. Scheduling sex can definitely save things.
Your past defines you, you wouldn't have become the person you are without going through and overcoming your past.
But now we are here, so OP can't really say anything. Jan hasn't said anything fur y years so he isn't going to now no one she knows, so best leave this in the past.
Thank you ?
I kept telling him that I wanted to divorce and I did not want to be with him anymore. He kept saying, your reasons don't make sense. At first he was saying you haven't even given me a reason why and then when I did, he said but your reasons don't make sense. I told him that they did not have to make sense and that I was done.
He brought me into a situation that I did not want. I didn't even want to leave our apartment. It wasn't even that bad, we just got into an argument with our roommate over something minor. I can't even remember what it was now and then the next thing I know, he's telling me that we're moving out. I'm honestly thinking that he did this to try to isolate me. So it's all well and good for him, he hasn't suffered at all. I'm done with him.
I would say trust your gut and have a conversation. But pay attention on how she responds and acts but you need to make sure you stay calm
I'm going to side with the fiance here. Yeah yeah call me the bad guy so what?! I just wish I had a dollar every time somebody said oh no no no not me, I would never do X or Y thing not ever, cross my heart and hope to die I swear over my mothers grave. Then go on to do the same exact thing they swore they would never do. Everybody and I do mean everybody is capable of killing. They just need the right pressures, circumstances and ofcourse the right framing. Its the I felt scared and threaten so I shot him. Self defence? Or murder? Its semantics really. At the end of the day someone died its just that one is legal and the other one isn't but dead is dead.You still got blood on your hands even if it was justified.
What is the 1st step one must take to break someones trust. Easy, you must 1st gain their trust. How many people that have been cheated on say I never suspected or did not see it coming etc. Thats pretty much everybody. You say you would never cheat and I say I'm the queen of Wakanda. I'm a male by the way.
Note that a lot of affairs occur with people the partner already knows. Its the trainer at the gym, Jill from accounting at work. Her friend who is always there while your wife harrases you over silly things. Its that guy you have been talking to every morning you stop to get your starbucks coffee over the last 6 months. It makes sense that is someone you know because you already feel comfortable with them you already have a connection, share the same interests etc. Your friends are your friends because you share similar views. BML pussy hat vegan girl is not going to be friends with mr Maga hat, gas gusling f250 with a gun rack on the rear windshield. I know what some of you are going to say. Oh, I have a friend from the opposite sex that I would never ever blah blah. That is true. But can you say the same for every friend? Can your friend say the same? And can you say you will never ever until the day you die change your feelings? And yes, some people can say just that but also remember that this exact scenario isn't rare at all. I bet you know more people who have cheated or have been cheated on on 1st name basis than people who have cancer and have suffered a stroke combined. And you are also going tonsay oh thats just immature people should … people nothing!!! Peolle should steal, murder, lie, cheat etc and yet here we are.
Bottom line is this. A man and a woman are hanging out together in an intimate setting, having a good old time. When you look at them they are like a couple. Do you assume they are friends or do you assume they are an item? Heck, every time you see a man and a woman together like say at the supermarket do you assume friends or do you assume they are in a relationship? Be honest now. I mean lie all you want but you are only bull shiting yourself. Yes, they clould be just friends but the behavior doesn't say friend. It says boyfriend, husband or whatever. Lets be completely honest here. If you heard of a woman who had a man over at her house what would you think its going on? And this is regardless of her being single, engaged, married or whatever. I know what you are going to say… you are going to say oh but he should know better. Nope, you assume he should know better. Thats on you for your dumb assumptions. You assume things and then get all butthurt when people didn't see it your way. Sure, ideally he should had know better but he didn't and thats that.
The whole arguiing over him not trusting you in my opinion is stupid. If someone says they dodn't trust me sure, I would be hurt but I would also ask, ok, what can I do to prove to you I am not what you think. I would ask what has happened in their life that leads you to believe I am not a trust worthy person. The you have to trust me because I say so yewh, maybe that works in fantasy land but here in the real world it doesn't. People are full of insecurities and also full of shit. Its better to on-line in the real world and accept that people have all sorts of issues. I can also understabd why he would break the whole thing off He opened up to you and communicated his concernes and what do you do? You give him the good old fuck you. I'm right, you are wrong and yournfeelings doesn't matter because its how I feel that matters and you… well, you are just a dick I use to scratch my itch. Turn this whole scenario around and tell me you wouldn't be upset too.
Huge red flag! He won't talk to you if you get a hair cut. That's great he thinks you're pretty as your are. But it's your hair if you want to shave it then shave it. What will happen when you want to dye the gray out. Or better yet you have kids. Will everything just be his way? Sounds like you need to have a conversation about this and about the future. After wards you need to think about it and if you want someone controlling you down to getting a trim. He's f'in ridiculous.
34? Look, you are an adult and as such can do what you want, but that's not normal and likely not healthy.
This is that person with the fake stories right?
Not sexually compatible AND he shuts down conversations. Impossible to see if you guys can get to a level both are comfortable with if one person won’t talk.
It's a small town, I'll end up seeing him
Tailgated too hard and passed out. No biggie. Have the fight if it's gonna happen and let him know it was important to you. If he doesn't apologize then it's a problem, if he does work it out. Especially as it sounds like his first Christmas with her he just made a young dumb mistake or didn't even realize it was important. Lots of people like holidays too much, I blew off Christmas dinner today too because I needed some extra sleep. I'll go see my mom on Monday. It's only two days later.
Time for a new BF, my dear. There are guys who are into this gesture thing and guys who never will be and girls who want it and girls who don’t care. Find someone who speaks your language. ❤️
also don’t buy presents for people and then feel resentful about it – at that point they are not gifts.
Who says it’s to spite the ex? Maybe it is maybe it isn’t. Could be for a career change. Or you hated that job.
thanks for the resource!
He's said he doesn't want to die without meeting his grand daughter
But he's okay dying not reconciling with his daughter that he raised? He really doesn't see her as a person at all. Just an extension of himself that misbehaved and this needed to be cut off. Well I'm sorry your sister and her child are a package deal. Unless he swallows his pride, apologizes, and reconciles on his own, he's not gonna get what he wants. Do you really see things from his side, or is it just that he's currently making everyone so miserable that you resent you sister for not having to deal with his behavior?
Did the therapist have any insight on the situation? Or suggestions on what to do? I think they’re asking that because in most where a child has gone low contact with a parent, it’s due to perceived mistreatment, emotional harm, or something else. If you have behaved in a way to purposely hurt her, then that would be it. Everyone has their conflicts and makes mistakes, and if you’ve apologized and worked to make up for them she shouldn’t be holding it against you.
Yes, a lot of girls try fillers, but multiple plastic surgeries suggests that she struggles with extreme insecurity, envy, and possible body dysmorphia. If that is the case, then maybe pure jealousy and insecurity is the only thing at play.
You'll do it OP max you'll struggle for a year but its better than a lifetime with the wrong one..
Second this
Second this
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Can you ask your girlfriend who would be looking after her needs if she were to fall seriously ill or sustain a life changing injury?
Genuinely curious, does she have money for private carers so her family do not need to see her genitals? Or would she fully expect you to clean her up after calling you a sicko/incestuous for doing the same thing for your SISTER?
She needs to grow up and realise that life isn’t sunshine and daisies and that sometimes you do things that aren’t “typical” because life handed you a certain lot and you’re not an asshole enough to abandon ship.
I applaud you for being there to care for family.
JFC this girl is trash, you and your family are doing the lords work and she sexualizes disability care? That’s Fucking disgusting, you deserve way better than that my dude.
Sounds more like she’s holding you back.
Tell her you will not be paying for her car, period, end of story.
You seemed to be making foolish decisions. First you took back your cheating gf. Second you did not insist that a paternity test should be done when the child was born. You will be responsible for this child for 18 years if you don't lawyer up, and you will be back on reddit crying to us.
Block him
Been there, done that (both sides). Sounds like coke to me.
It’s either no PIV or condoms. Tell him that and if he makes a stink, break up. Life is too short to spend it with shitty people
He is cheating. They are touchy feels with each other and openly trying to take it to next level. He ignores your calls to hang out with her. He was trying to hide it and cover it up. He is already out dating on his new job. This job will not work for your family relationship. Screenshot those messages and her info.
And if you do want kids with him, what if you get married, get pregnant, and then the baby has a severe abnormality that will mean it wouldn't survive more than a couple hours and has a really painful life for those couple hours after birth? I guess you'll have to divorce him to have that abortion.
You don't have to say that you saw her phone though. You can say that someone show them together. ? Sorry for lying but when they are not honest with you you don't have to be honest with them.
She has since told me to prioritise her. She is annoyed and upset that I froze and was unable to make the decision.
You've only been married 7 months, so let me give you one of the most important lessons of marriage both my husband and I have learned: Sometimes it's just easier to flush the toilet/put the lid back on the mayonnaise jar/pick the wet towel up off the floor/reseal the bag of potato chips yourself. There are simply some things about him that annoy you that will never change. 🙂
He sounds like a psychopath.
Yeah I'd considering it cheating, tell her she can go be with him now that she is single.
You were part of their social support system, and now they have to on-line with that emptiness, and the knowledge of what they did. Idiots.
she slapped his hand away but knows this was wrong on her part, but instead of apologizing like a normal person she’s making up this scenario where her boyfriend returned the favor
this all just screams dodging accountability to me
Yes. Yes. yes. Both make good money, what is hs required to do, make 500k to keep her happy? Her debt? She may make a lot and may be smart to be a doc but her debt says otherwise.
We just double barrelled the surnames:)
It doesn't sound like you have a relationship worth saving to be honest. If one person doesn't put in any effort in a relationship and constantly hides things, it's over. Get legal advice and make your separation official.
He's sleeping with someone else and is using the “dirty” house as an excuse and to justify it. He's definitely telling some woman or 2 that you 2 are separated but he can't move out yet.
If this were AITA, it would be an ESH. Her comment was mean–she should have just left it as “that's annoying” (the behavior, not you as a person) and not brought your ex or others into it. But why were you fidgeting with someone else's clothes?
Admit it, u know the video is recent but u r acting like the ostrich that likes to keep its head buried in sand..
I would move out as quickly as possible and cease all contact.
He is/was actually a very sweet man
I'm sorry but no. He's a misogynist who as soon as you behaved in a way he didn't like did everything he can think of to cut you down and undermine your confidence. Sweet people don't do that.
What you have done to this “traditional” man is threatened his masculinity. He envisioned you being at home while he brings in the money. You serve the traditional housewife role. You have since grown and have started your own side business and are starting to earn an income. You're starting to branch out and find different people you connect with and you're able to be independent.
If you want growth in a relationship, a traditional man is probably not going to be receptive to this. I honestly don't know if there is reasoning with him because all of this seems very strange to be upset about. Now he's actively punishing you.
I would suggest couples counseling if he's even up to it. Doubt he's willing to budge on anything. Good luck.
There are famous couples with differing political views in politics so yes it’s possible. The question should be is it probable it will work out and the answer is most likely no because different political views evolved because of different values.
Nah mate, your man sucks
Its always the 30 something’s with the early 20s people knowing they can get away with this shitty behavior since they don’t know better
Sure it does.
If she’s lying off her own volition it brings up questions of cheating (emotionally or otherwise) and why she’s lot to him and if she lies about other things….
But if she lies because he’s controlling and manipulative, leaning towards emotional abuse, and trying to interfere in her kids relationship with their father… well that’s totally different.
Either way this relational probably needs to end, but why makes a big difference.
Youre a jerk. He does sleep with me jesus