Dating is a time to find out how your partner acts in various situations. You are probably lucky you saw this only one month in. Your gf is overly emotionally reactive and irrational. She may have deep insecurities. This could be a recurring issue and end up restricting all your activities in service of someone else's mental illness.
I didn’t make any excuses for him. I’m saying that ADHD could explain why the partner isn’t able to just change their behavioral patterns at will. Taking potential neurodivergence into consideration and looking for specialized solutions to problems is probably a better course of action than just writing the guy off as an unfeeling moron.
How long has she overstayed her visa? I would tell her to go back and find work (she has a nursing degree, she can support herself) while filing for a fiancee visa. She would be legal and it would resolve the issue with your parents.
You would also be able to look into the green card process and see what you are actually getting yourself into. You would have to sign an affidavit of support meaning you are financially responsible for her until she becomes a citizen. All debt she incurs will become your burden even if she skips out on you after receiving her green card. I would check out /r/immigration for more information.
I did that in my use. And I stopped drinking. I got clean and sober. I had one more sort of thing and realized I wasn’t really into women. That I wanted a home and a family and a man with everything that meant and I never went back.
Dating is a time to find out how your partner acts in various situations. You are probably lucky you saw this only one month in. Your gf is overly emotionally reactive and irrational. She may have deep insecurities. This could be a recurring issue and end up restricting all your activities in service of someone else's mental illness.
Block her back and start seeing someone else.
I feel roughly 124% confident that this man is redpilled on manosphere garbage.
Why does that even matter? I'm more concerned about how he will influence her life
I didn’t make any excuses for him. I’m saying that ADHD could explain why the partner isn’t able to just change their behavioral patterns at will. Taking potential neurodivergence into consideration and looking for specialized solutions to problems is probably a better course of action than just writing the guy off as an unfeeling moron.
How long has she overstayed her visa? I would tell her to go back and find work (she has a nursing degree, she can support herself) while filing for a fiancee visa. She would be legal and it would resolve the issue with your parents.
You would also be able to look into the green card process and see what you are actually getting yourself into. You would have to sign an affidavit of support meaning you are financially responsible for her until she becomes a citizen. All debt she incurs will become your burden even if she skips out on you after receiving her green card. I would check out /r/immigration for more information.
I did that in my use. And I stopped drinking. I got clean and sober. I had one more sort of thing and realized I wasn’t really into women. That I wanted a home and a family and a man with everything that meant and I never went back.
what the fuck is wrong with you? get help. this is straight up controlling and manipulative, you piece of stinking shit