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You are confused ..
Stop remembering the moments that felt good or hopping for him being something that he's not..
If you don't feel loved, if you don't feel respected, if you are miserable with him.. only you can make yourself happy.
If he's blaming you, guilt tripping you making you feel bad about yourself it shows you that he doesn't love you. If he feels the same as you (blame shifting) then agree with him to move separate ways.
Dude honestly she sounds like a spoiled child. She only thinks what she does and likes matters and isn’t open to others having different likes and thoughts. She’s got some maturing to do if you want her to be supportive and encouraging to your hobbies.
It really is up to you. She’s shown you who she is. There is no guarantee that she will eventually grow (especially with her already being 28) maturity wise. Try to have a long and serious conversation about it with her. Tell her exactly how much it bothers you. This could be a deal breaker.
Honestly, I had that issue when I was 18. I used to trash on one ex’s music choice and was pretty relentless about it. We would fight about it, but he eventually told me “do you really want to be the type of person who likes to shit on other people for things that they like? For things that make them happy? What a miserable thing to do to people”. That hit me like a bag of bricks. That’s not the type of person I wanted to be so I took it upon myself to be kinder and support people for the things that they like.
You are confused ..
Stop remembering the moments that felt good or hopping for him being something that he's not..
If you don't feel loved, if you don't feel respected, if you are miserable with him.. only you can make yourself happy.
If he's blaming you, guilt tripping you making you feel bad about yourself it shows you that he doesn't love you. If he feels the same as you (blame shifting) then agree with him to move separate ways.
Are you able to provide advice on how to approach the subject?
Dude honestly she sounds like a spoiled child. She only thinks what she does and likes matters and isn’t open to others having different likes and thoughts. She’s got some maturing to do if you want her to be supportive and encouraging to your hobbies.
It really is up to you. She’s shown you who she is. There is no guarantee that she will eventually grow (especially with her already being 28) maturity wise. Try to have a long and serious conversation about it with her. Tell her exactly how much it bothers you. This could be a deal breaker.
Honestly, I had that issue when I was 18. I used to trash on one ex’s music choice and was pretty relentless about it. We would fight about it, but he eventually told me “do you really want to be the type of person who likes to shit on other people for things that they like? For things that make them happy? What a miserable thing to do to people”. That hit me like a bag of bricks. That’s not the type of person I wanted to be so I took it upon myself to be kinder and support people for the things that they like.