Is she still in contact with her father? If the last time she lived with him was when she was a minor, then it's considered rape/abuse/sexual assault, that's if it happened when she was still living with him as a child. I know the wording is implying as if she made the choice to do so, but you have to really take into context when/how this happened. However, you can't as you don't have any context, and that means you'll have to talk to her.
So the question is, are you willing to risk your relationship with her to tell her what you saw? If you can't get passed this, then it's worth talking to her about it. You'll just have to approach it gently and expressed that while you were looking for your document, you accidentally saw the book and curiosity took the best of you. Apologise and said you understand you were wrong about it and will accept it, but gently say you saw something about her dad and see how she reacts to it. You'll have to bring it up gently as you can and pay attention to her reaction. It will tell you what you need to know. Good luck.
Thank you, I will wait to calm down and thunk things through so I don't say anything I'll regret before I break up with him.
Is she still in contact with her father? If the last time she lived with him was when she was a minor, then it's considered rape/abuse/sexual assault, that's if it happened when she was still living with him as a child. I know the wording is implying as if she made the choice to do so, but you have to really take into context when/how this happened. However, you can't as you don't have any context, and that means you'll have to talk to her.
So the question is, are you willing to risk your relationship with her to tell her what you saw? If you can't get passed this, then it's worth talking to her about it. You'll just have to approach it gently and expressed that while you were looking for your document, you accidentally saw the book and curiosity took the best of you. Apologise and said you understand you were wrong about it and will accept it, but gently say you saw something about her dad and see how she reacts to it. You'll have to bring it up gently as you can and pay attention to her reaction. It will tell you what you need to know. Good luck.
Im very sorry for that, How can i do that?