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Date: October 2, 2022
You cannot have a platonic friendship with someone that clearly demonstrates that level of interest. 2 weeks is super fast for that level of interest too. And just based on your description I am getting serious Nice Guy vibes. Definitely don't lead him on any longer, turn down the Xmas date (now, not later that would be super rude) but be prepared for him to angrily turn on you lol.
Don't worry about what he did in the past. Worry about what diseases he is carrying now. And insist he get tested immediately for all STIs.
Yeah because breaking up with her will make the situation sooo much better.
You people are heartless and your solution to this girls trauma is an obvious sign you have commitment issues and no fight for those you supposedly “care” about. Would you abandon your friend or sibling for having the same trauma?
The fear they have certainly isn’t crazy (which you acknowledged), but like I said, that fear can exist with anything, in the sense that even if we ignore religion, there’s always a risk that he becomes a controlling and/or horrible partner.
You’re not going to be able to alleviate that fear from your parents. I’d rather focus on how you’re going to be able to protect yourself; first, like I said, don’t get married until you’re confident based on what you’ve learned that you can trust your partner. That’s all literally anyone can do.
Second, if things change (in that regard), you don’t have a fear of divorce. If you go into a marriage with certain assumptions based on what you’ve been told and learned, that’s why you’re entering into a legal relationship. So if your parents’ fears end up being reality, you need to be willing to walk away and not let the promises you made to get married be the reason you stay.
Hopefully it never comes to that. We’re also talking about a situation so far in the future. But just be smart.
its 100% normal, we should just normalize not having any pressure to have sex in a relationship. every person has different preferences = every relationship looks diffrent in diffrent aspects. some couples dont have sex at all. as long as it feels ok and youre ok with your sex life and sexual preferences, everything is good
I'm trying really hard to not have to rely on government assistance. I've seen so many that once they depend on it they can never quite get off and be completely independent. Not that that would necessarily be a bad thing I just never see those people ever having a great quality of life.
(I used to work in property management and I've volunteered at many church food banks)
How was it obvious?
Both tested and nothing on the STD front.
I feel robbed agency in the early stages of our relationship to decide for myself what this part of her past means for our relationship prospects. A year and a half of my life are gone and this is only coming up now.
I have doubts that I would ever be able to put this out of my mind. I really thought she was perfect before this. Now I feel like we’re miles apart in terms of our sexual preferences and our values.
This is how I feel about my friends and family knowing my reddit. In fact I pretend to barely know what the site is.
My wife is different, I like to be able to ask her opinion on stuff I read on here.
We were doing well after the first baby for the most part.
I love to read, but there's a huge chance that if somebody were to hand me a long ass letter, I doubt I'd read it. You should probably tell her that it's really urgent that she reads the letter soon. Or, just propose, and tell her you'd been trying to get her to read the letter for days and you're taking her reluctance to trudge through 14 paragraphs as a potential dealbreaker. Or something.
Depends on you what you want in life from this relationship. It's not what is right and wrong, it's about what is right and wrong for him and you.
I can understand you not wanting to change your way of life for a 3 yr old dating partner.
I can also “personally” understand a person not being comfortable to committ for life if her/his partner is investing this much time and energy outside.
And there are examples of both sides thag worked and didn't work.
At this age and 3 yrs together, it would do you both a goo service to understand and agree what you both want , compromise and can't compromise.
As a fellow transman, I’d be pissed. There is absolutely no reason why she should be outing you unless you have given her explicit permission to tell people. That’s a danger to you and your family especially given what you shared about not being in the best place to be out. I’d sit her down and let her know she crossed the line and that is unacceptable. If she doesn’t see the error in her ways you may want to consider if this is really the person you want to be with long term if she doesn’t even consider you basic rights to privacy.
Dude your only 2 years older than me, you have the rest of your life to find someone
Being with someone won't automatically fix your problems, make yourself happy first, do things you want, find a goal to shoot for
Who knows you might meet the live! of your life later on, you never know
Maybe take up hobbies where you can meet new people it's all about initiative trust me as long as your willing to have sex you won't have any issues
Yeah you don’t know what clear blue is.
Make this terrible man your ex.
Also ditch this friend when the lease is up.
Bruv…
OP sounds whiny and exhausting and frankly I wouldn’t blame anyone for not wanting to hang out with them
Way to early of a relationship to determine that.
“Been through stuff” doesn't really say much, does it. I mean, has he been through stuff and now he is angry all the time? Is he cold and standoffish? Does he jump at loud noises? Is he a strong dude because he now never wants to talk about feelings?
I feel so good when I'm giving Samir all the love and affection he never got. When he's sleeping on my lap and he's so calm and at peace, it makes me wanna cry.
So you gain your self worth through being needed. Sounds like you've been through stuff too, might want to look into therapy for that savior syndrome you seem to be wielding.
because he's had to pull himself so many times, I can lean on him.
So you want him to lean on you, or you want to lean on him?
I don't know, I'm not necessarily seeing red flags. They are definitely flags of some color, but you haven't really described much and are really vague. Which fair enough, you know none of us. But honestly, if you want a happy life where you can truly rely on another person and know they can rely on you, I highly suggest you talk to a professional. All we can do is give vague responses to your vague handwavy questions.
Ok i have a better picture of it but I don't play so take my advice with a grain of salt. I'm going to equate this to being in a theater group/historical re-enactment, which I have been. You get paired up “romantically” and have to pretend to be together in a fantasy context though you don't have to kiss or anything like that. Accurate?
If so, I think as long as your bf isn't also in the campaign, it's fine. It would be awkward if you are “married ” to one character while your bf is 5 feet away glaring at you. Why not just match up with him?
As for Duke, it seems like he's respecting your relationship by backing up now that you have a bf. Any issues between him and your bf are for them to hash out. It doesn't seem like he's jealous or interested in you romantically so that will probably blow over.
Nope i just work with literal teens.. you know the ones u sleep with.
Work with emotional girls in therapy who regret this bullshit you are doing rn when they actually really realize the depths of it all and lose family over some dick that isn't even interested in anything about them other than what they can offer sexually.
I hate seeing men doing this bullshit and acting like it's not an issue. And woman do it too. I work with young men who go through breakups and toxic relationships with woman who do this bullshit too.
I hope you are right and she has considered all that there is to consider here and all of the outcomes. Good luck with that talk with her sister. I pray she doesn't break down and cries too much when it blows up in her face. And i hope to God you will actually stick to your word and support her when that happens.
It’s a very common category as far as porn goes. I don’t think it likely means anything at all. Regardless, I wouldn’t bring up his porn search history.
It’s got nothing to do with pedophilia, if that’s what’s bothering you.
So now you know who out of your “friends” is an actual friend.
The ones who were sick – they should have let you know as soon as they were sick, they didn’t, so cut them. The ones who just couldn’t be bothered, cut them.
It takes 30 seconds to send a text, and they didn’t even respect you enough to do that.
And convictions take a long time to go through the process, so what these laws really do is delay the abortion until the fetus is viable and the woman cannot get an abortion. On paper it looks like they make exceptions for rape, but in reality they are forcing women to carry their rapists' babies.
Please do what's best for you. You are not responsible for his choices. And now a sad story of what it might look like…
I have a friend whose abusive and depressed (sound familiar?) boyfriend told her if she left, he'd kill himself. She left anyway. On her last trip to his place to pick up her things he hung himself in front of her, in an effort to keep her around. He stepped off the chair literally when he heard her keys in the door. She had to cut him down and deal with the EMTs etc. She now has PTSD from that experience. I'm glad to say she is now happily married with 2 kids who call me Auntie.
Get past the shitty part ASAP. There's a whole world waiting for you if you can make the right choice.
i think you might need to let up on this unless you're planning to be the sole provider of orgasms to a 21 year old.
And this is relationship advice so how can we help?
You aren't listening. He's not being honest with you on this subject, and wasn't from the beginning.
Perhaps not. I would just like to gauge whether or not this relationship is going to go anywhere. Perhaps my idea of “marking it official” = commitment is flawed
Sigh. Don't stay with men who don't respect your boundaries.
Lol I have friends who married there coworkers. But the fact he wants my attention is astonishing cause I don’t find my self very attractive. Unlike him he could stop traffic lol
Have you lost any weight recently? Losing weight can make you seem / actually longer.
Don't break up with her. Tell him to tell her he changed his mind and wants to proceed. Then let her break up with you. Then have him show come out of a room and be like we were in on it.
Believe you're thinking of HSV, HPV typically doesn't cause lesions. Genital warts would be the most common symptom, but it can be spread even if there are no signs or symptoms.
You're both blowing this out of proportion.
Avg salary for pharmaceutical technical writer is 80K and she got a scholarship at a private university which is not easy to obtain she will leave you in the dust bro hopefully sooner than later
Why are you worried about other people’s perception of your living arrangements?
Your partner has communicated his desire for his own space and you’re worried about people thinking you have problems? If you can’t respect his needs, then you actually do have problems.
Having your own bedrooms doesn’t mean you can’t share the bed some or most nights!
I like everything about this.
I claim Absolutely. No. Responsibility. For being betrayed, lied to, talked bad behind my back, and compared to.
You’re kinda gross for the victim blaming and you should seek help.
Prenup wouldn’t help much for wealth/assets gained during the marriage. It’s not like he is in his 50s and has a lot of wealth to protect.
Prenups are good at keeping what you already have “safe” not what is obtained while together.
“I promise that any pictures or videos of you are private! Unless maybe it might help me get a better bj, or really help me at all to show them to strangers.”
You also need to do some introspection as to what you admit were some causes to his troubles that you did. Actions have serious consequences.
This is a tough situation. It sounds like all three people involved have some serious issues they're dealing with and none are really healthy.
Regarding your ex, just brush her off and block her. Anything she says is tinted by your past relationship and breakup. Even if she has a point, she's the worst one possible to express that.
Your previous friend leaving could be one of many things. She might take comments the worst way. Her new girlfriend might hate you for being a man, or she might hate you for lifestyle or opinions. It might be valid, it might not. It might be your friend unleashing old trauma in bad ways. You may never have been quite as close as you thought. In that case she might have been humoring you, clinging on to a friendship when she had few, or just using you. Or maybe you really are saying and doing things much worse than you express here. That one is difficult to tell.
What you can do is look at yourself and ask some hard questions. Do you make offhand comments that judge people? Do you genuinely dislike many people due to natural attributes or reasonable behavior? Do you consider yourself right most of the time and willing to argue that?
You mentioned comments that bothered your friend. Could you express those to us? Preferably as close as you recall to what they were and as unfiltered as possible even if you don't feel that way now or even then.
From what you say, my impression is that you mean well but may have a few issues and say a few things that can be hurtful. If so, I'd suggest working on being mindful of your words and behavior.
I will also say that if your description of your former friend is accurate, this might be for the best anyway. You say you'd drop someone for insulting LGBTQ, yet she insults the drag community which is gender non-conforming and well known for even the fully heterosexual members being staunch LGBTQ allies. She puts you and your interests down. Those aren't the behaviors of a healthy friend or one who fully supports the LGBTQ community.
In any case, any info on what you may have said would help. You also say you step around LGBTQ discussions to avoid issues, any incidents of said issues you could tell us? Maybe there's problems, maybe not, but regardless, self reflection and mindfulness is a good idea anyway.
I adopted a dog like this. They can be trained out of it. It takes work, and patience because it won’t happen overnight, but you CAN teach an old dog new tricks. The dog is not ruining the relationship, your boyfriend is by not properly training the dog. If he is having trouble training the dog (it is not always easy), he should take the dog to obedience classes. If he is not willing to do that then the dog will not change, and it’s up to you if you want to deal with that or not.
Oh thank God lmao
But to be fair, usually there's something good going on. Bands play in the Bourbon Street bars every night, and Frenchman is where the jazz has moved if you're still into that. Just go with a group of at minimum 4 lol.
You got it right. He's a user. There is no other choice but to chalk it up to experience and move on. Any further contact with him will result in a repeat performance of his pathetic existance. You deserve much better.