I would L O V E to know the state of his house/apartment and how much domestic labor falls on you when you stay over for more than an evening. Please, OP. I'm so curious.
My ex husband had a whole double life with kinks I never knew about. I found out about after his first affair. The irony was if he’d just shared them with me I wouldn’t have been remotely bothered. The gross secrecy was what I hated. You sound very much like him.
Please watch Jigsaw by Daniel Sloss on Netflix. He's a comedian with very insightful thoughts on relationships and when it's time for them to end.
I would L O V E to know the state of his house/apartment and how much domestic labor falls on you when you stay over for more than an evening. Please, OP. I'm so curious.
My ex husband had a whole double life with kinks I never knew about. I found out about after his first affair. The irony was if he’d just shared them with me I wouldn’t have been remotely bothered. The gross secrecy was what I hated. You sound very much like him.