You didn’t betray your husband, all these comments are not it.
You said your FIL did something that made you feel attacked as well, or at least concerned enough to talk to your own father about it. It’s your father! The first man in your life that took care of you. You should be allowed to confide in your dad if you are worried or concerned about your FIL’s behavior.
Families who act secretive about someone’s shitty behavior are usually protecting an abuser. If your FIL is a bad person, you could be subject to abuse from him some day and your dad knowing these details could help you out of a bad situation.
It’s fine to apologize to your husband to keep the peace but I personally don’t think you are in the wrong.
I misunderstood because I read he was peaking your interest. Think for one moment, how absurd it is that he’s trying to get your attention from his friend. Not only is it a betrayal of the friendship if you were ever caught, but it’s kind of downright despicable. So he’s not a good person anyway. At least not around this issue.
You should probably read again. I said this isn’t a legal issue specifically where it pertains to her lying and saying he raped her. I never said sexual assault isn’t illegal. I was specifically replying to the idea he should report it to the police for fear of her flipping the narrative.
Girl. I was in a relationship once and felt myself falling in love with my best friend. I made the jump. Broke up with my boyfriend, took some time, and confessed my feelings. I’m engaged to my best friend now, getting married this year.
Honestly. Follow your heart. It may not work out perfectly but at least you’ll have tried.
You didn’t betray your husband, all these comments are not it.
You said your FIL did something that made you feel attacked as well, or at least concerned enough to talk to your own father about it. It’s your father! The first man in your life that took care of you. You should be allowed to confide in your dad if you are worried or concerned about your FIL’s behavior.
Families who act secretive about someone’s shitty behavior are usually protecting an abuser. If your FIL is a bad person, you could be subject to abuse from him some day and your dad knowing these details could help you out of a bad situation.
It’s fine to apologize to your husband to keep the peace but I personally don’t think you are in the wrong.
I misunderstood because I read he was peaking your interest. Think for one moment, how absurd it is that he’s trying to get your attention from his friend. Not only is it a betrayal of the friendship if you were ever caught, but it’s kind of downright despicable. So he’s not a good person anyway. At least not around this issue.
You should probably read again. I said this isn’t a legal issue specifically where it pertains to her lying and saying he raped her. I never said sexual assault isn’t illegal. I was specifically replying to the idea he should report it to the police for fear of her flipping the narrative.
Girl. I was in a relationship once and felt myself falling in love with my best friend. I made the jump. Broke up with my boyfriend, took some time, and confessed my feelings. I’m engaged to my best friend now, getting married this year.
Honestly. Follow your heart. It may not work out perfectly but at least you’ll have tried.
How are you people real? How do you have any other option other than to leave ?