This right here. I could maybe buy she didn't intend to have sex and was pressured into it. It still doesn't excuse her behavior leading up to it, but it is cause for concern and empathy.
But then she spent the rest of the night with him and only called her husband while doing the walk of shame? Come on.
She's trying to downplay her actions. She flirted all night. She kissed him willingly. She followed him into his room after flirting and kissing. WTF did she think was going to happen? Scrabble?!?! She's a grown ass woman. She knows damned well what a man intends when he takes her to his room after a night of heavy flirting. I'm sorry. I'm just not buying it. It would be one thing if there was no interaction or flirting prior, and she went to his room under false pretenses. This ain't that.
She knows what she did is inexcusable. She's trying to make it seem like she wasn't a willing participant, so she won't be at fault.
She. Spent. The. Night. Cuddled up in post coital bliss. Was there a round 2 or 3 (as often happens in ONSs)? I suppose she just couldn't leave ever? Please.
The only random grasping at straws thing I could possibly think of is that your ex-friend wants to talk to you alone in neutral territory, which is why she's ignoring any group gatherings or coming into your city, but still asked you to visit. Now, why she might be doing that? No idea. Why she couldn't SAY it if that's what it is? Again, no idea. You guys were presumably quite close, otherwise you would never have asked her to be MOH, so I'm with everyone else and at a complete loss why she could never communicate with you about anything or otherwise not leave you so in the dark. But maybe there is a person, place, or thing that is causing her to avoid you there, and the sister thought you knew. If your husband thinks MOH just didn't like you being the center of attention, which I think i read in a comment reply, then it's probably just self-centeredness and you don't have to feel bad just because someone who ghosted you and has not been communicating with you is upset with you.
Yes. That’s the point. He’s dangerous.
This right here. I could maybe buy she didn't intend to have sex and was pressured into it. It still doesn't excuse her behavior leading up to it, but it is cause for concern and empathy.
But then she spent the rest of the night with him and only called her husband while doing the walk of shame? Come on.
She's trying to downplay her actions. She flirted all night. She kissed him willingly. She followed him into his room after flirting and kissing. WTF did she think was going to happen? Scrabble?!?! She's a grown ass woman. She knows damned well what a man intends when he takes her to his room after a night of heavy flirting. I'm sorry. I'm just not buying it. It would be one thing if there was no interaction or flirting prior, and she went to his room under false pretenses. This ain't that.
She knows what she did is inexcusable. She's trying to make it seem like she wasn't a willing participant, so she won't be at fault.
She. Spent. The. Night. Cuddled up in post coital bliss. Was there a round 2 or 3 (as often happens in ONSs)? I suppose she just couldn't leave ever? Please.
The only random grasping at straws thing I could possibly think of is that your ex-friend wants to talk to you alone in neutral territory, which is why she's ignoring any group gatherings or coming into your city, but still asked you to visit. Now, why she might be doing that? No idea. Why she couldn't SAY it if that's what it is? Again, no idea. You guys were presumably quite close, otherwise you would never have asked her to be MOH, so I'm with everyone else and at a complete loss why she could never communicate with you about anything or otherwise not leave you so in the dark. But maybe there is a person, place, or thing that is causing her to avoid you there, and the sister thought you knew. If your husband thinks MOH just didn't like you being the center of attention, which I think i read in a comment reply, then it's probably just self-centeredness and you don't have to feel bad just because someone who ghosted you and has not been communicating with you is upset with you.