It doesn't matter if he's sleeping with this person or not, tbh. What value dies he put in you, in his own child?
Relationships like that does something to you, and in a way you're “addicted” to this person, because they have you believing you're not worth more. I know, I've been there. The only way out, is THROUGH. Cutting ties. Dealing with the loneliness, getting yourself help dealing with the trauma I'm betting you have.
What a bunch of bullshit.
You don't have to wait for answers. This feels familiar because it is familiar.
After you end this relationship, do the work to figure out what draws you toward these assholes.
I can see why it is baffling, it is so outrageously bad.
Ask him why he doesn't send nudes of himself to his boss? Why isn't that compulsive too? Haha.
It doesn't matter if he's sleeping with this person or not, tbh. What value dies he put in you, in his own child?
Relationships like that does something to you, and in a way you're “addicted” to this person, because they have you believing you're not worth more. I know, I've been there. The only way out, is THROUGH. Cutting ties. Dealing with the loneliness, getting yourself help dealing with the trauma I'm betting you have.
You CAN do this. For you, and for your child.